Hi there, I'm 22 weeks pregnant with baby #2 after loosing my daughter at 28 weeks last year (for unknown reasons).
I went for an ultrasound last week and my cervix was measuring 2.8 cm and my doctor mentioned that it was a little on the short side and wanted me to come back in a month to check it again. He's kind of wishy washy and just left it at that.
So now of course I'm looking all kinds of horrible things up and am thinking maybe this is what went wrong with my daughter last year (went to the ER at 24 weeks last time in severe pain and they sent me home, now after giving birth im positive it was a serve contraction ( lasted 45 minutes ) and at my 28 week appointment they discovered my babies heart hadn't been beating for weeks). I think my body was trying to go into labor and they just sent me home at 3 am.
Anyways, is there any advice for me? There was also NO fluid with my first baby when I went in at 28 weeks so I'm so nervous that I'm leaking fluid. I have always had ALOT of pressure deep in my pelvis and yesterday I had some stabbing pains that felt like I was sitting on a knife!
What are some signs I should be looking out for that might indicate my cervix is becoming TOO short? Should I be having sex at this point (I've been avoiding DH)?
Doctor said he didn't want me lifting over ten pounds but I work in a shipping and receiving unit for a hardware store and there is a lot of pushy and pulling and squating etc. I think I'm just freaking myself out, sorry for the rant just scared to death in going to loose another child..
Re: Kind of short cervix? Confused.
Expecting Saulie O 2.12.2016
Thanks ladies for the replies ! Maybe I will schedule an appointment with my family doctor to see what she thinks? Get a second opinion.
As far as a cerclage is concerned, I don't believe doctors perform them after 24 weeks. So, if you wait a month to get your cervix measured again, it would be too late to even get one. More importantly, a length of 2.8 is not quite in the "danger zone" (less than 2.5/some doctors say less than 2.0) and, as another poster said you might just have a cervix that is always on the shorter side. So, getting measured again (and not a month from now) to compare your cervical length is very important.
Push to get your questions answered and your concerns addressed. You have to be your biggest advocate. Good luck.
I am going to go in to the hospital today as I've been having some stabbing pains that aren't really disappearing and hopefully get them to check my cervix and everything again. Thanks for the responses ladies !
my doc told me that he's only concerned if it gets below 1.5 at this point because in almost 30 weeks.
He said just to "take it easy, no sex ( I've been on pelvic rest since I was 13 weeks) , and there's nothing I can do to change the situation so try not to stress. "