My son is 2 1/2 years old and my husband wants to take him on vacation with his parents to Florida (we live in the Midwest). I am invited but I cannot get the time off from work and we have a 6 month old as well. I don't really want my son's first vacation (and plane trip) to be without me -- plus, I don't feel ready for him to be that far away from me (I trust my husband and in-laws, but neither has been the primary caregiver for my son since he was born). My husband rarely gets time off work, but has the time to go to Florida and wants to take him. Am I being unreasonable by saying no?
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Dude. All of this. 100%. Find a way to go with or let them go and be happy for them.
If the decision was to have them go and there was absolutely no way I could swing it, I'd probably be pushing for him to take the little one as well and enjoy my week alone (I'm halfway joking)
FWIW, plane travel with a toddler is seriously not fun. I don't think I could pay my husband to take my oldest daughter on a flight/trip without me so major props to your H.