I'll go. DH's friend who is getting married in April. I love you, man, but WHY does your bachelor party have to be a 4-day cruise?
The last several of his friends to get married have had to to blowout trips for their bachelor parties. First, money. Ever heard of saving it? Second. I have a kid, with another on the way, I'd like my husband to be around to help.
I said he can go, I can handle things just fine and I'm not going to be that witch who says no, but why doesn't anyone do a one-night bach party anymore??
Bonus, DH told me "I didn't even ask you about the after party in Orlando " -- an afterparty. After a 4-day party.
I cannot wait for these childless mofos to experience the joy that is babies/children. I'm going to laugh so hard at them.
Pfff. DH's friends suggested a Vegas bachelor party for him. We didn't have any kids then but I was so glad DH laughed it off and planned a one night party in a nearby major city. Plus of his groomsmen, most were married or in serious relationships, 2 had young kids, and 1 was underage (his brother), so I'm pretty sure it was either a half-hearted suggestion or was a suggestion from the lone single partier which was probably shot down pretty quickly.
When my brother got married (and they had 2 young kids!) his friends, all single childless guys, took him to Mexico for 5 days. His wife was annoyed but mostly that her friends didn't do something similar, she never considered asking him not to go. DH was invited and I WAS the witch who said HELL no (we had DD at that time and we didn't have the disposable income for the trip to happen without us sacrificing doing something fun as a family). Luckily DH wasn't that interested in going anyways as he didn't really know bro's friends.
I'll go. DH's friend who is getting married in April. I love you, man, but WHY does your bachelor party have to be a 4-day cruise?
The last several of his friends to get married have had to to blowout trips for their bachelor parties. First, money. Ever heard of saving it? Second. I have a kid, with another on the way, I'd like my husband to be around to help.
I said he can go, I can handle things just fine and I'm not going to be that witch who says no, but why doesn't anyone do a one-night bach party anymore??
Bonus, DH told me "I didn't even ask you about the after party in Orlando " -- an afterparty. After a 4-day party.
I cannot wait for these childless mofos to experience the joy that is babies/children. I'm going to laugh so hard at them.
Pfff. DH's friends suggested a Vegas bachelor party for him. We didn't have any kids then but I was so glad DH laughed it off and planned a one night party in a nearby major city. Plus of his groomsmen, most were married or in serious relationships, 2 had young kids, and 1 was underage (his brother), so I'm pretty sure it was either a half-hearted suggestion or was a suggestion from the lone single partier which was probably shot down pretty quickly.
When my brother got married (and they had 2 young kids!) his friends, all single childless guys, took him to Mexico for 5 days. His wife was annoyed but mostly that her friends didn't do something similar, she never considered asking him not to go. DH was invited and I WAS the witch who said HELL no (we had DD at that time and we didn't have the disposable income for the trip to happen without us sacrificing doing something fun as a family). Luckily DH wasn't that interested in going anyways as he didn't really know bro's friends.
@DobbysSock Nothing wrong with being the witch who says no, for sure. If I really wasn't up for it, or we couldn't afford it, I would do that, too. A couple of years ago there was a beach trip a few states away for a bachelor party, and some of the guys were going all week. DH dared to ask if he could, I said not all week, too much. A weekend was approved.
As for this trip, it's one of his best friends in the world, and I'm not going to ask him to miss it. Give me a medal, I guess. But after kid #2 I'm not sure how much generosity will be left. (This will be in March). Luckily I don't foresee any more wild bachelor parties from the single guys who are left.
@mandyjulie definitely nothing wrong with him going, either, as long as it's not a financial hardship and you're up for the extra work for those days And I'm sure he'd stay behind if you really wanted/needed him to. I'm sure he'll have fun and it's awesome that you guys help each other enjoy time away with your friends when special events come up.
Mine is insurance and grad school. Dealing with both today I spent about 2 hours on the phone. Also apparently I need a pregnancy pillow, I wake up several times a night with numb hands from sleeping on my side. Sleeping on my stomach is almost impossible especially if I have eaten in the past few hours.
@AAAG13I love my snoogle, so I highly recommend it! For your numb hands, I'd suggest buying wrist braces. The braces help from keeping your wrists bent, which seems to help a lot!
@soberkfell that's funny that you mentioned the braces because I am really only experiencing this in my right hand. I broke my right wrist badly this fall in a car accident and I have a brace I wore after the casts came off. I'm going to try wearing it tonight. This sounds crazy but it's actually really painful when I wake up and have to message the feeling back into my hand. I think the pain is also amplified because it wakes me up out of a dead sleep and I'm disoriented until I figure out what is going on.
@MDmomma1217 is the blood from irritation?!? Hopefully it goes away and feel better =(
I am also having a runny nose with headaches and just resting before it gets worse..
@chanfa I think my sinuses are super dry, which is why my nose is bleeding. I went back to work yesterday, and after nobody being in our building for a week and a half, the heat was awful. Not making my sinuses any better! Hope you feel better soon!
The past two nights I've had some serious Restless Leg Syndrome... my DH was like what the mother ef is going on right now cause I could lie still...it was miserable... I've never heard of this being a pregnancy symptom but also rarely get anything like that. No fun... also, I haven't pooped today so I'm extra cranky
I had restless leg almost immediately with my first. This go around I haven't had it yet, but the sciatica turned nasty real quick which tends to make me flop around trying to sleep. I found hubs is the perfect height when he's laying on his side for me to prop my knee on and my sciatica eases right up haha.
My twat waffle today is cranberry juice. How I love you, you cold hearted bitch, but oh how you give me heartburn.
The company I ordered my snoogle from. If I am not aloud to enter a po box in the order form, then why did FedEx transfer it to the post office?! Since the post office does not deliver to my physical address I don't get my damn pillow. It will be sent back for having an undeliverable address. Also, I may be a twatwaffle for sending above company a long winded email regarding the flaws in their ordering/shipping system. I just want to be comfortable and get some sleep!
People who start whole new threads that could easily be a part of a similar one or could go in the randoms. Seriously, if the post title is longer than (or almost as long) as your post just find a place it belongs.
My twat waffle is the vampire at my OB who not only stuck me twice and hurt the hell out of me, but she took the wrong tubes for the Harmony testd.. so I have to go back thursday and now she had delayed my results by 3 days!
But I did have a good appointment and got to see my alien.
@marowan I got my leachco pillow last week and I'm loving it! I've always slept with a pillow between my legs anyway, but I needed something longer to support my sore boobs more lol and then the belly when it starts getting bigger.. I'm 11w5d
My twatwaffle is the fact that when my gag reflex randomly got triggered (for seemingly no reason, as I'm sure you are all familiar with), it made me pee my pants a little. I didn't even need to pee, thankfully I was at home, but seriously?!
Also, bless my husband for not laughing when I ran to the bathroom and begged him to bring me jammies.
My twatwaffle is the fact that when my gag reflex randomly got triggered (for seemingly no reason, as I'm sure you are all familiar with), it made me pee my pants a little. I didn't even need to pee, thankfully I was at home, but seriously?!
Also, bless my husband for not laughing when I ran to the bathroom and begged him to bring me jammies.
Story of my life these days. DH just laughs as I gag and then run to the bathroom.
The NP at the doctor's office today. When I told her I was anxious about having to stick myself with anticoagulants daily for 6 weeks after giving birth she said, "Well, if you don't, you could get a blood clot and worst case scenario die, and you'd be leaving behind a newborn." What the actual fuck was that?!?!? Who says that?!?!? That might have pushed me over the line to move to the Center for Midwiffery that's in the same hospital. I've loved the OBs I've seen, but I couldn't believe those words came out of her mouth. And me, once again, not having a good comeback. Womp womp.
The NP at the doctor's office today. When I told her I was anxious about having to stick myself with anticoagulants daily for 6 weeks after giving birth she said, "Well, if you don't, you could get a blood clot and worst case scenario die, and you'd be leaving behind a newborn." What the actual fuck was that?!?!? Who says that?!?!? That might have pushed me over the line to move to the Center for Midwiffery that's in the same hospital. I've loved the OBs I've seen, but I couldn't believe those words came out of her mouth. And me, once again, not having a good comeback. Womp womp.
Wtf!! The NP at my ob office is horrible too. She kept on going on and on about how marijuana is lowering test scores and that pregnant people are now smoking it all the time. Umm weird because I just said no to drug use so why are you even talking about this!
The NP at the doctor's office today. When I told her I was anxious about having to stick myself with anticoagulants daily for 6 weeks after giving birth she said, "Well, if you don't, you could get a blood clot and worst case scenario die, and you'd be leaving behind a newborn." What the actual fuck was that?!?!? Who says that?!?!? That might have pushed me over the line to move to the Center for Midwiffery that's in the same hospital. I've loved the OBs I've seen, but I couldn't believe those words came out of her mouth. And me, once again, not having a good comeback. Womp womp.
@LinzerBinzer what a bitch. that is awful. I'm so sorry she is awful. on a side note, I'm on blood thinners now for the whole pregnancy and 6 weeks post. Mentally thinking about doing it is SOO much worse than actually doing it, at least that's what I think. Thinking about giving myself shots makes me want to throw up, but if I dont think about it and just do it, its not bad at all.
Re: Twatwaffle Tuesday
Eff off.
When my brother got married (and they had 2 young kids!) his friends, all single childless guys, took him to Mexico for 5 days. His wife was annoyed but mostly that her friends didn't do something similar, she never considered asking him not to go. DH was invited and I WAS the witch who said HELL no (we had DD at that time and we didn't have the disposable income for the trip to happen without us sacrificing doing something fun as a family). Luckily DH wasn't that interested in going anyways as he didn't really know bro's friends.
As for this trip, it's one of his best friends in the world, and I'm not going to ask him to miss it. Give me a medal, I guess. But after kid #2 I'm not sure how much generosity will be left. (This will be in March). Luckily I don't foresee any more wild bachelor parties from the single guys who are left.
My twat waffle today is cranberry juice. How I love you, you cold hearted bitch, but oh how you give me heartburn.
Also, I may be a twatwaffle for sending above company a long winded email regarding the flaws in their ordering/shipping system. I just want to be comfortable and get some sleep!
July'16 BMB May Siggy Challenge - Star Wars:
But I did have a good appointment and got to see my alien.
Also, bless my husband for not laughing when I ran to the bathroom and begged him to bring me jammies.
DD #2: EDD July 2016