Life Lessons Learned in 2015

Charissadeats

Seeing as this year is almost at an end, I've been thinking a lot about what this year has taught me. The most important things, for me, were the following:

1. Things happen when they are meant to - you can plan all you want, but life (and babies) waits for no man (or woman)
2. Sometimes it's okay to let go of certain relationships, even if it's family - if it's forced, it's most likely not worth it
3. Good friends will always be happy for your successes. Those who can't be happy for you, shouldn't be considered friends
4. Mistakes happen, and you can either cry about it or fix it

What did this year teach you?

yogahh

Ahhh yes, point 2 100%. You cant make everyone happy, or be everything for everyone. There comes a point when you need to make decisions in the best interest of yourself/your family. If people cant respect those decisions, then that's on them.

jessiedee13

My number one this year...
You never know when your time here is up. And something silly can be what ends your time here. Don't take it for granted. And tell all those people you love that you love them. Do it now. Later might be too late.

kp90

A few of the biggest things for me this year..

1.) Relationships are hard work. They are a two way street. You have to give and take. You have to be flexible and adapt to each others ways.. but in the end if you're both in it and wanting to make it work, that's all it takes. TEAMWORK & communication.

2.) Things happen for a reason... when they are meant to happen. Sometimes it's best to let God control the wheel.

3.) As for friends/family relationships... to touch on what's been said, sadly I realize that maybe I don't mean as much to someone as I thought I did.. when they can't be happy for you and even have a sense of jealousy or try distancing themselves from you because of something you are extremely happy about (pregnancy) then maybe that person is more toxic than good. 

Here's to all of us bringing in the New Year as future mommas! xo

BuzzBee614

Love this post.

1) If it doesn't feel right, stop doing it. This is in regards to the teaching job I resigned from to stay home with my daughter and the work from home job I quit because the boss was a psychopath that had me in tears with panic attacks every day. I live with less now, but have never been happier. 
2) Pursue new things. 
3) I am meant to be a stay at home mom. 

Charla1224

I'm learning and accepting (it's a process) that I'm a pretty cool ass person.
Before I tried to hide some of my quirks and analytical thoughts in fear that I'd scare people off. This year, with my H's push, I've been a more authentic me everyday. And for the most part people seem to like it. Appreciate it even. And those that don't... Don't. And losing them for being myself isn't as painful as I feared.


I'm so excited for next year!! H and I will get to really carve out a place for OUR family. We've been married for a year but we haven't been able to create our own traditions. Now with LO on the way I know she'll help us create our own picture of FAMILY.

kbrands7

1. Simpler can definitely be better.
2. Things happen and develop in their own time.
3. People will naturally/generally eat until they are full. If they are happy, healthy, and growing then things are fine. (In regards to what DH calls my "Italian mother anxiety" with DS's eating habits.)
4. Arguments get resolved a lot faster if you stop to think from the other person's perspective.
5. Ask for help when you need it; don't expect it to be offered.
6. Chicken nuggets are delicious...I hadn't eaten them in years until this pregnancy. Thanks, BMB

ETA: 7. Play! It's fun. Yesterday, we ran around the dining room table with planes and firetrucks then spun in circles and sang. Thank you, DS.

businessmama

1. People come in and out of your life for a reason. Appreciate what you learned from them while they were there, but do not hold on to bitterness if you both have moved on.
2. Money in the bank for emergencies is better than new 'stuff' any day of the week.
3. If  you are giving to someone, GIVE. Do not expect something in return. And know that there is no better feeling that helping someone.
4. Play with your dogs. Honestly, there is no day that does not improve just by sitting with your dogs.
5. BE PRESENT. Do NOT look at your phone when you are with company - it is insulting to that person that their time isn't important.
6. Pursue your dreams - even if you can't dedicate your full day to it (yet), it is the daily habit that gets you closer to where you want to be.
7. Sweat - you will feel better when you love your body.
8. For those who are religious, remember that God is good ALL the time, even when life doesn't seem to be going our way.

ayeshaohara

Love this!

I have learned:

1. Plans don't always go to plan. So make new ones, that are even better.
2. My husband is incredible and I should not take him for granted...ever. And marriage is hard work!
3. It's ok to do my own thing and not live by other people's rules. It'll make me happier in the long run
4. Always make time for fun and to be silly
5. Be grateful for something everyday. Even if it's just a new day. Someone else didn't get that opportunity
6. my pre pregnancy body was awesome and after baby is born I intend to love and appreciate it more than I did before!

May you all have an incredible 2016 with happy, healthy babies! It's going to be amazing!!

BuzzBee614

This thread is giving me all the feels. 

doozer1345

I can actually get pg again.

cortney626

My biggest life lesson of the last year is to probably let things happen, trust my husband, and not try and control every aspect of my life. This time last year I was antsy to get married. We had been together for a few years, live together, and I have a daughter. It was time to sh!t or get off the pot. My husband told me this would be the year I expected. I'm such a control freak and just want to always plan everything. But this was beyond my control. This past year, we got engaged and then married in a small intimate ceremony. We got pregnant 3 weeks after removing the IUD. We're stronger than ever. Amazing what can change in a year! The next year will bring a drastic change with the baby and I'm glad we're strong going into it. It will be trying!