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lilmamapanther

Good afternoon ladies,

I had to take a step back because you ladies were moving right along and I felt stuck. But we're making progress now and I'm glad to be back. So, mini intro, to say the least ivf is our only option because I have scar tissue encasing my ovaries. I know I gotta be difficult and all. I'm also type 1 diabetic on a insulin pump. DH is extremely supportive in the tell me where to be and what I gotta do type way. Well, we finally signed out consent form this morning. I started by yesterday, and was told this morning that our mock embryo transfer will be the 28th, as well as, our shot class. I'm extremely nervous and excited. It's like it took forever to get this far and now it seems to be moving so fast. From what I was told, I will start stim the first week of January, we're doing icsiwith a 5 day transfer. So, this is our first ivf cycle. Any suggestions? How did you stay relaxed? Is anyone else going through the same cycle?

oxinfree

Hi @lilmamapanther - I did something very similar. I just recently came back to this board after a long break from treatments. I'm sorry to hear about your situation and scar tissue. 

Congrats on moving forward with your first IVF in January. Very exciting, and nerve-wracking I'm sure! 

Advice?

- Just be easy on yourself. 

- Try not to expect too much out of yourself during this time. It's okay to ask for help, turn down social gatherings etc. You are dealing with a lot emotionally and physically. 

- Never feel bad about breaking down, or not being able to handle the stress. 

- Use these ladies as a resource. We are hear to vent to, cry to, ask the ridiculous questions, whatever you need.

- Most importantly... take care of yourself. This goes back to not expecting too much of yourself. But also try and remember to eat, laugh, and enjoy life during this time. It can feel all consuming, but if you keep a foot on the other lighter side of life, you'll keep a little more sane (but again, if you can't ... that's okay too!)

We're all here rooting for you. Best of luck! 

lilmamapanther

Thank you @oxinfree I never thought we'd ever actually makes it this far. It seemed like a scheduled date would never come. You're right it's definitely both. I'll definitely try to remember your advice.☺