FTM mom here and just wondering if there is any reason NOT to use a laundry basket instead of a bassinet? Has anyone done this or something similar? I have a crib in LO's room ready to go but wanting him to sleep next to our bed for the first few months (crib doesn't fit into our room). Is there a safety or practical reason to invest in a bassinet instead of just using what I have on hand?
Also, if anyone has done this, what would be the safest way to pad the basket?
Yes I'm serious about this, and I'm not really interested in getting judged if your only reason is that you think it is trashy.
FTM mom here and just wondering if there is any reason NOT to use a laundry basket instead of a bassinet? Has anyone done this or something similar? I have a crib in LO's room ready to go but wanting him to sleep next to our bed for the first few months (crib doesn't fit into our room). Is there a safety or practical reason to invest in a bassinet instead of just using what I have on hand?
Also, if anyone has done this, what would be the safest way to pad the basket?
Yes I'm serious about this, and I'm not really interested in getting judged if your only reason is that you think it is trashy.
Ive never thought about that and i have yet to get a bassinet as well, i would think using a crib bumper for the sides and a small pad covering the bottom would do fine. The more firm the better because the more soft and comfy it is the more of a risk of him suffocating/SIDS
I have not personally used a laundry basket or a bassinet I put my first straight into the crib... But as far as what I've read and even seen as a norm other places (look into the boxes Sweden gives every new mom to sleep the newborn in ) there is no difference... They don't need anything fancy just somewhere safe! It will be the same as far safety as a bassinet. The only issue I could forsee is when padding you have to make sure baby can't get stuck between padding and edge and that the padding is firm and won't smother the baby which are the exact same issues with cribs bassinets and Moses basket. I know I've seen some moms share their experiences with laundry basket sleeping on Pinterest and other places so maybe search those blogs to find out how they accommodated their LO safely!
I have never heard of this, but if you can work out all the safety issues, I don't see why it would make a difference. I think the biggest issue would be finding a firm, perfectly fitted mattress for the laundry basket. There would be risk of SIDS if there is a gap between the mattress and the sides of the basket, and if it is too fluffy, there will also be a risk of SIDS.
The other main concern would be that it may be easy to tip over. At least the laundry baskets that I have at home are so light, it can easily tip over, which would be especially dangerous if you have a toddler or pets.
I also would find one with slated sides, or mesh sides, as to minimize the risk of SIDS to allow for good air flow.
As far as what PP said about Sweden, the box that they give comes with a fitted mattress (Finland also does this), so it's different than just using a laundry basket without any mattress made to fit it.
If you can find something similar to the box new parents are given in Finland, I say go for it! It might be hard to make a straight-up laundry basket safe, but if you find a breathable mattress-type thing to fit inside tightly it could work. I live in Ireland, where most people use Moses baskets that are really not that different.
I've never heard of this but I suppose if you were able to find a firm "mattress" type thing that fit perfectly in the bottom of the basket it could probably work. Interesting to think about
Do not use a laundry basket. Yes safety issues are there... read about them. They say the crib is the safest for your baby with a proper fitted mattress. but we are using the halo bassinet for the first three months bc we don't have our own place yet and are living with my parents until summer. This is a very expensive but safe bassinet.
Finding a box and fitting a thick piece of foam in it would be better than a laundry basket. Make sure the foam is tight. I doubt anyone is judging as "trashy" but more on the safety side.
I don't think it's unreasonable to look for a different option, but you're going to be hard pressed to find something that is firm and tight fitting enough to be safe as a "mattress". You certainly wouldn't want to put blankets in the bottom or anything like that.
I'd recommend a rock n play (small, not too expensive), or perhaps a Moses basket type setup. Also, something like this would work in the bed or set on the floor: https://www.summerinfant.com/byyoursidesleeper
I have a similar question- can babies sleep through the night in a car seat? My husband and I are traveling to Uganda when our son will be about 2 months old, and the first night he will not have a crib. Could he sleep in his car seat?
I think investing in a pack n play (that has a newborn sleeper attachment) would be a much better choice than a laundry basket. Being able to nap and/or change the baby in something that's mobile, safe and off the floor I think you will find it to be worth it. Plus it can be broken down to travel with, easily moved around the house (even outside), and a safe play area when needed. You can buy basic models that don't cost a fortunate. Putting the baby on the floor (besides the questionable safety factor of the "bed/mattress" itself) doesn't seem like a good idea to me. Being close to the floor dust, the heater, or something falling on baby in the night (like a pillow), I think it's a much safer choice to find a different alternative.
I have a similar question- can babies sleep through the night in a car seat? My husband and I are traveling to Uganda when our son will be about 2 months old, and the first night he will not have a crib. Could he sleep in his car seat?
No, it's not a good idea. The positioning is not good/safe for them for an extended period without moving. There's an article on it that was floating around when I was pregnant with DD that talked about why, but I don't have a link.
I have a similar question- can babies sleep through the night in a car seat? My husband and I are traveling to Uganda when our son will be about 2 months old, and the first night he will not have a crib. Could he sleep in his car seat?
I think investing in a pack n play (that has a newborn sleeper attachment) would be a much better choice than a laundry basket. Being able to nap and/or change the baby in something that's mobile, safe and off the floor I think you will find it to be worth it. Plus it can be broken down to travel with, easily moved around the house (even outside), and a safe play area when needed. You can buy basic models that don't cost a fortunate. Putting the baby on the floor (besides the questionable safety factor of the "bed/mattress" itself) doesn't seem like a good idea to me. Being close to the floor dust, the heater, or something falling on baby in the night (like a pillow), I think it's a much safer choice to find a different alternative.
This is what we are doing! It sits perfectly level with our bed too, our apartment is a one bedroom, so obviously not that big, and it doesn't take up much room, has wheels, has all the safety requirements and a safety guarantee, and is actually REALLY cozy. Plus the sleeper attachment can come off and stand on its own wherever you want it to.
Lol I think it's fine, you can probably buy a firm pillow to use as padding in the bottom. It wasn't too long ago babies slept in dresser drawers, you don't really have to spend money on a bassinet esp. if it's not in your budget.
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Babies will probably out grow a laundry basket quicker then a bassinet, is also hard and uncomfortable.
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We used a laundry basket when we went back home the first time and put a blanket folded under her but she was too long for it the next time. I wouldn't make it a regular thing anyways we did it because we literally spaced completely on grabbing the pack and play.
I have a similar question- can babies sleep through the night in a car seat? My husband and I are traveling to Uganda when our son will be about 2 months old, and the first night he will not have a crib. Could he sleep in his car seat?
I think in bed with you is better than a car seat.
I feel like this might be "controversial" in that it's not in line with what the APA recommends, but I'm just going to say it. We coslept (like baby right in bed with us) 80% of the time when my son was tiny. ESPECIALLY when traveling. We took tons of trips and never brought a car seat, pack'n'play or anything really but a sling. I know this terrifies a lot of Americans.
We did this once when we forgot the pack n play. We lined it with a pillow and it worked just fine for one night. She couldn't roll over yet (3 months old) and we rolled the corners of the pillow underneath to make kind of a dip in the middle. So she sat in the little dip and didn't move. I'm not sure I would choose this for a long-term solution, but it definitely worked in a pinch.
*Don't worry we removed the toy and blanket after she fell asleep. They were to help soothe her to sleep. She was supervised the entire time all of that was in there.
If you don't have a safe place for baby in your room, but you have a crib, just put them in there and skip the headache of trying to figure out how to sleep them in a laundry basket. that's my vote.
Be careful using a laundry basket.... SIDS comes to mind.... Theres no way to really pad it safely for a daily use. I've seen it before were you put a firm pillow at bottom and drape a blanket in it so the blanket hangs over the sides. But why risk it when you can go to Wal-Mart and purchase a bassinet or pack and play for cheap. I be nervous using laundry basket.... What if the padding isn't firm enough and baby is on their back but turns head to side and blanket or pillow ends up covering up over their little nose just enough so they suffocate.
I definitely let my son lay in a laundry basket lined with a towel while I was getting dressed in the morning when he was probably 4-6 months old. I wouldn't have let him sleep in it over night but it was a good contained space to put him down while I got ready a few feet away.
We also used a laundry basket in the bathtub when he outgrew his baby tub but wasn't quite sturdy enough for the big tub. Again, it kept him and the toys contained!
Please don't consider letting your baby sleep overnight in a car seat. Young babies can and do suffocate when they sleep in a position that isn't flat. Read sidsforkids for info you really need to know as a new parent. If you are really stuck and they can't roll yet a blanket on the floor would be safer than a car seat. As for laundry basket should be fine if you can find a firm tightly fitted mattress. If you can't find a mattress then it won't be fine. If you are getting a crib then babies are totally 100% fine in the crib from day 1 and that would be by far the best option. They don't need a smaller sleeping option for any reason other than parent preference.
Ps if crib doesn't fit in your room could you put it just outside with the door open? Our just suck up crawling down the bed to get out of bed in order to cram it in?
Lol I think it's fine, you can probably buy a firm pillow to use as padding in the bottom. It wasn't too long ago babies slept in dresser drawers, you don't really have to spend money on a bassinet esp. if it's not in your budget.
I agree with this. And I'll also say that we used a RnP but my life got a million times better when I figured out how to nurse him while lying down and he started sleeping with us in our bed. We did it safely and it was wonderful. He still sleeps with us a lot at 2 years old, actually. I think you should do what works for your family, as long as you're being safe!
I may use my sisters halo bassinet but we would have to ship it. However I did receive a graco pack n play that has a bassinet option which I will probably use since I have it. I would invest in a pack n play, they are great. You can travel with them and use them for a ton of functions.
I think the basket is a great idea. We won't be using a bassinet. There is no point spending money on something the baby will only fit for a few weeks anyway. It's cot/co-sleeping then straight into a kids bed when they outgrow the cot. Our cot is in our bedroom though and we pull it straight up to the side of the bed so we can reach through the side and offer comfort to baby without the need of pulling them out of the cot.
Putting the baby is a basket just sounds like a bad idea. Sure, people did all sorts of things back in the day. My sister slept in a drawer! But that was before people knew better and before there was thorough research on SIDS. I'm sure you can get a secondhand or borrowed bassinet for a reasonable price.
Re: Laundry basket instead of bassinet for first few months
OP- I believe SIDS is a good enough reason to look into purchasing a bassinet.
I'd recommend a rock n play (small, not too expensive), or perhaps a Moses basket type setup. Also, something like this would work in the bed or set on the floor: https://www.summerinfant.com/byyoursidesleeper
ETA: here's a link to an article: https://www.parents.com/blogs/parents-news-now/2015/04/24/parenting-news/why-you-shouldnt-let-your-baby-sleep-in-a-car-seat-swing-or-bouncer/
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We used a laundry basket when we went back home the first time and put a blanket folded under her but she was too long for it the next time.
I wouldn't make it a regular thing anyways we did it because we literally spaced completely on grabbing the pack and play.
I think in bed with you is better than a car seat.
I feel like this might be "controversial" in that it's not in line with what the APA recommends, but I'm just going to say it. We coslept (like baby right in bed with us) 80% of the time when my son was tiny. ESPECIALLY when traveling. We took tons of trips and never brought a car seat, pack'n'play or anything really but a sling. I know this terrifies a lot of Americans.
*Don't worry we removed the toy and blanket after she fell asleep. They were to help soothe her to sleep. She was supervised the entire time all of that was in there.
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What about buying a foam topper and cutting it to size? That way it would fit the laundry basket perfectly.
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