I love the books by Dr.Sears. I find their advice sensible and confidence-boosting. However, the best way to learn about parenting is by doing it-- I know, not very helpful advice at all, but you seriously learn from your mistakes!!!! Just remember that nothing is permanent, YOU are the boss, and anything you start doing you can stop doing at any time, i.e. co-sleeping, pacifiers. Good luck!
I have talked to a long line of amazing mothers and fathers who tell me to stay away from The Books at all costs. Works of fiction for/about children were the only books recommended.
It's normal to feel this way now. You'll be absolutely amazed at how instinctive you start feeling in the next few months.
Re: Just entering second trimester - already freaking out about parenting
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I have talked to a long line of amazing mothers and fathers who tell me to stay away from The Books at all costs. Works of fiction for/about children were the only books recommended.
It's normal to feel this way now. You'll be absolutely amazed at how instinctive you start feeling in the next few months.
As my mom told me a couple of weeks ago, children don't come with a manual.
On that note, if you do read a really good book, please send it my way.
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!