Am i OCD

Jennmiller1

My MIL who has made little to no efforr to see her grandson in the last 6 months jumps on rhe chance to babysit hin. I know it is her grandson but she has made no effott exceptfor family functions and holidays to see him. And they live 40 min a way at most. She also thinks i am controllimg and is always telling me how to raise my son. My husband is hunting tomorrow and i have to work so my in laws are watching him. I am more anxious than i was his first dat if day care. Am i being to OCD??

LeaRose87

I completely understand ur anxiety. My ex and his mother have only seen my son once within the first week after he was born. A few weeks later my ex was arrested and sentenced with decent jail time. I haven't heard from him or any of his family until a few days ago. His mother contacted me on fb. That has been it for 6 months. Not a single word. And even though it causes me great anxiety and I have resentment/anger towards him and his mom. My son deserves to know the other half of his family. All I can say is see how it goes. If it goes negatively look into a different babysitter. Ask friends for references. But most likely it will go fine and maybe she will involve herself more in ur sons life. Hoping for the best for u!

Sammadden27

I totally understand. I don't trust my inlaws at all with my son. My MIL purposely likes to do things that she knows I wouldn't approve of just to get me going. I don't trust for a second what she would try if I wasn't there.