WTF Wednesday??!!??

yogahh

WTF? Where is WTF Wednesday??

jessiedee13

I honestly thought when I didn't see this that I'd been imagining it for about 10-12 weeks....now that's a wtf.

nerdymama15

Sometimes I try to start one if I don't see one in the mornings sometimes.  Guess I'm falling behind.  Pregnancy brain ugh 
Edit: Maybe we should as a group delegate a couple members in charge of creating these threads if they aren't in there when they log in in the mornings or whenever they login?
I could take Twatwaffle Tuesday, would you want to take WTF Wednesday @yogahh?

gorgeousariel

My WTF: My OB called this morning to confirm my appt. tomorrow morning. I spoke to her and said yes I will be there. While I was at work I had a voicemail from them to confirm my appt. tomorrow. UHHH...yes 

doozer1345

I take food and cooking for people very seriously. DH's family celebrate mediocrity only when it comes to his sisters especially the middle one. This extends to her husband who is nice but lazy as F. He wants to take over Thanksgiving dinner bc "it's his fav holiday." By taking over he is making green bean casserole and stuffing which btw is dry and tasteless. WTF. Sit down and stop it. DH's family owns a very prominent restaurant in the area that is all about flavor and goodness. They know what tastes good and it angers me that they ignore it and still allow this tragedy to happen! You shouldn't get a trophy for participation! He's not even making mashed potatoes! WTF?! So... I am coming up the rear (haha) and making sweet potato casserole, mashed f'n potatoes, rolls (yeah...he wasn't going to do rolls), bacon and eggs deviled eggs, ham roll ups, sausage balls with cranberry dipping sauce, salted caramel chocolate bread pudding, apple bourbon cider pie, and a salad. I don't mind doing this BUT I had asked almost 2 weeks ago for the heads up on what I needed to make so I could take the day before off work. Now, I don't know if I can and my shift is 5p-3a.....WTF DH's family! WTF.

ETA: For emphasis

nerdymama15

pooputtette said:

My WTF: My OB called this morning to confirm my appt. tomorrow morning. I spoke to her and said yes I will be there. While I was at work I had a voicemail from them to confirm my appt. tomorrow. UHHH...yes 

I feel your pain!  My OB's office is so annoying with the confirmation of appts.  Tomorrow I have three appts in a row at that office.  One with an US tech, another with the doctor and another with the vampire lady (plebotamist - not sure how to spell it correct and feeling too lazy to Google it).   So they sent out an email for me to confirm via a button in the email for the US appt.  Then I got a auto robo call wanting me to confirm the doctor appt.  I'm like what, I already confirmed for one.  Do they think I'm going to skip out on the others?  Like wtf.

jessiedee13

nerdymama15 said:

pooputtette said:

My WTF: My OB called this morning to confirm my appt. tomorrow morning. I spoke to her and said yes I will be there. While I was at work I had a voicemail from them to confirm my appt. tomorrow. UHHH...yes 

I feel your pain!  My OB's office is so annoying with the confirmation of appts.  Tomorrow I have three appts in a row at that office.  One with an US tech, another with the doctor and another with the vampire lady (plebotamist - not sure how to spell it correct and feeling too lazy to Google it).   So they sent out an email for me to confirm via a button in the email for the US appt.  Then I got a auto robo call wanting me to confirm the doctor appt.  I'm like what, I already confirmed for one.  Do they think I'm going to skip out on the others?  Like wtf.


I'm glad my ob just trusts me that I'll be there. I don't get the reminder calls or anything. I couldn't imagine getting those throughout my entire pregnancy...I'd lose my mind.

Edit Cuz half my comment didn't post the first time...

gamommyx3

doozer1345 said:

I take food and cooking for people very seriously. DH's family celebrate mediocrity only when it comes to his sisters especially the middle one. This extends to her husband who is nice but lazy as F. He wants to take over Thanksgiving dinner bc "it's his fav holiday." By taking over he is making green bean casserole and stuffing which btw is dry and tasteless. WTF. Sit down and stop it. DH's family owns a very prominent restaurant in the area that is all about flavor and goodness. They know what tastes good and it angers me that they ignore it and still allow this tragedy to happen! You shouldn't get a trophy for participation! He's not even making mashed potatoes! WTF?! So... I am coming up the rear (haha) and making sweet potato casserole, mashed f'n potatoes, rolls (yeah...he wasn't going to do rolls), bacon and eggs deviled eggs, ham roll ups, sausage balls with cranberry dipping sauce, salted caramel chocolate bread pudding, apple bourbon cider pie, and a salad. I don't mind doing this BUT I had asked almost 2 weeks ago for the heads up on what I needed to make so I could take the day before off work. Now, I don't know if I can and my shift is 5p-3a.....WTF DH's family! WTF.

OMG....after reading this I am suddenly starving...

cortney626

pooputtette said:

My WTF: My OB called this morning to confirm my appt. tomorrow morning. I spoke to her and said yes I will be there. While I was at work I had a voicemail from them to confirm my appt. tomorrow. UHHH...yes 

This was DD's dentist office the other day. While on the phone making an appt, they asked me THREE times if my insurance info changed. I answered 3 times "No, nothing has changed." GOt off the phone. 20 mins later I noticed a missed call and voicemail and it was them asking if insurance info had changed. I called back. They were going to direct me to the person who made the appt. I interrupted and said "Just tell them there were no changes. They asked me several times on the phone." The lady kind of laughed and probably thought I was being bitchy. Well, I'm pregnant and have no time to deal with stupid crap, so yes I'm irritable. 

yogahh

Would anyone be shocked if i said what the eff boss lady?????

I think I mentioned before she is critical of everything everyone eats, while she slurps down daily hot cocoa from the vending machine

Well, today, I had to hold back from flipping out.

A co-worker brought her baby in (and all the feels! I held her forever while she slept. Cant wait for that to be an everyday thing for me!)

When she left, wicked boss lady said to me, "She looks great. See, there's hope for you after pregnancy too"...

UMMMMM WHAT????? I have told her repeatedly my doctor is not (that) concerned about my weight. If she aint concerned, lady, you can get your ass out of my business too. You would think I sit at my desk eating trays of brownies, instead of fruit, cheese and the occasional bag of pretzels.

rlworzalla

My WTF this week is my in-law's not having plans yet for Thanksgiving.....it's looking like we will be driving back home and just doing something last minute, and then complaining because it has to fit around the dinner time of my family, which was set weeks ago. 

countrygrl5533

The two storage unit places I've been trying to call for a week. No one answers the phone, ever. Last week one place at least had an answering machine...not that he ever called me back. Now when I call, there isn't even a machine anymore. The other place just rings too. Umm....I need to clear some clutter out of my house before we start having showings. I need someone to actually answer the phone!

wamam027

Wtf to my heartburn! It's on a rampage today. Thank goodness for some apple cider vinegar I'm about to chug in some water!

missnc77

We get a deep clean once a month, and I was so excited for the cleaners to come today. I did my normal pre-clean prep of decluttering the house so they could get their clean on, but they never showed up! My house would be so sparkling clean right now, but nope. Still dirty.

NinnyJean

I'm a social worker and recently all my cases have been blowing up. I have three I have to close next week and are due near the end of the week. My boss emailed out a reminder about the holiday and needing them all done by Tuesday. No idea how that's going to happen!

kbrands7

WTF to a bedtime asthma attack (mine). Nope, don't climb on me and I can't tell you a story or sing, baby, until the inhaler kicks in. Thankfully, it started working within a few minutes and DH responded to my quick, frantic text by coming upstairs to take George for a few minutes.
This was still not the most WTF part of my evening though, just the more recent WTF.

***if you're still nauseated, you probably won't want to read this***
DS is an upset-puker. If he gets too upset about something, his gag reflex triggers. Tonight, after bedtime snack, he got upset about taking his iron drops (DS is anemic like me). We usually take vitamins right before dinner, but I forgot today because I had to work late. SO, he's crying and getting huffy, and crawls into my lap for a hug and kiss to calm down. Right as he's going in for the kiss, he vomits on my face. Then again on my chest and the vomit rolls down into my crotch. Then he hugs me.

I yell for DH to help, and he explains that he's in the middle of a [video]game with his friend who moved to California. Cue angry pregnant lady. He did come up then to take DS once I had him stripped down and cleaned him off so I could shower and put laundry on. DH is lucky I love him and that he banked some good karma by being exceedingly kind yesterday when I had a migraine.

BabyL527

My WTF wednesday......I am a floor nurse and when I decided I have a second to pee I go...I went bursting into the bathroom went pee and then find out not only was there no TP on the roll but there was none in the bathroom. Who does that!!! Thank God there were paper towels.

nerdymama15

WTF to our oldest and smallest dog.  He is house trained.  I was standing in the kitchen finishing up my supper and talking to my mama on the phone.  Meanwhile, Vegas was standing in the floor beside me waiting for anything to drop in the floor accidentally.  This is normal behavior.  Did not think anything about it.  Vegas has had really bad gas today.  So I'm on the phone and suddenly smell something and Vegas takes off running to the door basically telling me he had to go outside NOW. I thought he had just had a really bad smelly fart and needed to go outside right that second.  I told my mom I had to go and I put Vegas on the leash since the two big dogs were in the backyard, we went out front.  All he did was pee.  I was so confused.  THEN I walked back inside only to find that little stinker had pooped in the floor of the kitchen right beside me.  Did not even try to tell me he needed to go outside.  Didn't bark or anything.  And on the way to get the leash I stepped in it and trekked it all across the kitchen, and through the living room to the foyer.  Realized this after the fact.  About that time DH comes in from the garage and I'm like watch your step!   He sees the treks  and basically says something to the effect of if I was blind and how did I not see that. 

Like for real dude?  Really? I don't walk looking down at the floor and secondly, the stupid dog did not tell me he had to go out.  I was not expecting there to be poop in the floor.   Plus, never had a dog do that while standing right beside me. 

valerie4786

My WTF Wednesday goes to my client...who is my favorite and graduates our program this Friday after two years!  She told me today that she was considering working things out with her husband instead of following through with her divorce.  I wouldn't have a problem with it if he weren't an abusive enabling asshole that makes her miserable. 

This client was a very unhappy stay at home mom who refused to get a job because he wanted her to stay home to cook and clean for him, would buy her alcohol (she's a recovering alcoholic) while in a sobriety program yet shame her in front of their daughter when she was drunk (the only way she previously knew how to cope with him and how unhappy she was), blamed her alcoholism entirely on her and refused to get couples counseling because "it's her problem" even though he abuses prescription pills - which she ended up relapsing twice on while in this program.  After her second relapse we moved her out of her home into a sober living home because she wanted to get the help, and she made a complete turn around and told me about all the abuse she endured while with him and has gained so many skills since!  She got her first job in almost 20 years last year and just this past week got hired at an even better job!  She got her own apartment that she is able to maintain, is paying her own bills - she used to get an allowance from him and never had a bank account or had written a check, and is registered for college classes!  She has changed so much and it has been amazing to watch her find herself - so when she told me today that she was considering working things out with him I almost lost my shit.  Ultimately, it's her decision, but I was completely honest with her about what I thought of it - citing examples she has said to me on why divorcing him has been the best decision of her life and how she's so proud of herself for the changes she has made.  I encouraged her to really process this with a few more specific people before she made any decisions and I hope she gets the reality check she needs for this.  I feel like I gave her a pretty big reality check, but I worry about her graduating the program this week now that these thoughts are floating around in her head - especially since clients she'll have a higher rate for relapse within the first 90 days of graduating if she's not very vigilant of her recovery and thought process.

WTF favorite client!?

valerie4786

yogahh said:

Would anyone be shocked if i said what the eff boss lady?????

I think I mentioned before she is critical of everything everyone eats, while she slurps down daily hot cocoa from the vending machine

Well, today, I had to hold back from flipping out.

A co-worker brought her baby in (and all the feels! I held her forever while she slept. Cant wait for that to be an everyday thing for me!)

When she left, wicked boss lady said to me, "She looks great. See, there's hope for you after pregnancy too"...

UMMMMM WHAT????? I have told her repeatedly my doctor is not (that) concerned about my weight. If she aint concerned, lady, you can get your ass out of my business too. You would think I sit at my desk eating trays of brownies, instead of fruit, cheese and the occasional bag of pretzels.

Umm...did you punch that lady!?  What a B! 

..Also, seriously love for your SJP/SATC gif!

businessmama

valerie4786 said:

yogahh said:

Would anyone be shocked if i said what the eff boss lady?????

I think I mentioned before she is critical of everything everyone eats, while she slurps down daily hot cocoa from the vending machine

Well, today, I had to hold back from flipping out.

A co-worker brought her baby in (and all the feels! I held her forever while she slept. Cant wait for that to be an everyday thing for me!)

When she left, wicked boss lady said to me, "She looks great. See, there's hope for you after pregnancy too"...

UMMMMM WHAT????? I have told her repeatedly my doctor is not (that) concerned about my weight. If she aint concerned, lady, you can get your ass out of my business too. You would think I sit at my desk eating trays of brownies, instead of fruit, cheese and the occasional bag of pretzels.

Umm...did you punch that lady!?  What a B! 

..Also, seriously love for your SJP/SATC gif!

Hahahaha my first thought when I read that was I hoped she punched her. Not pregnancy rage either- I think most would agree she needs it!