hi. im a first time mom and i gave birth 3 weeks ago. my husband will come home next week. do u think is it safe for us to make love? is it really safe? i didnt feel.any pain on my private part but i still have brown discharge this day. last few weeks its a blood that came out from me. then my husband keep on asking me if its safe for me to do it, but i really dont know the answer. is it possible that i will get pregnant coz i didnt us any birth control pills? thank u for ur answer. hoping some one will help me.