I started spotting yesterday at work and it got heavier today. I called my doctor and went in he did an ultrasound and the baby's who heartbeat I heard just a little over a week ago was gone. I can't even explain the hurt.
I'm so sorry for what's happened. I had one in May after 11 weeks. It was awful, devastating. How are you feeling? Do you have people around you to care for your affairs while you grieve? I know this might not be what you want but something that really helped me and my husband grieve was to eventually make our close knit group of friends know what we had experienced. They didn't even know we were expecting. But the bonding that came from them knowing, it was like we were being held up by them all. They even arranged for my husband and I to have dinners for over a week. I couldn't bear pretending nothing had happened around them, so sharing our personal experience ended up being the best thing we could have done. Take time for yourself, and when you're ready, talk about it to people you trust. I talked to a therapist of sorts, she was one of my alternative health care providers but her perspective was incredibly helpful. I'm so sorry again that this happened! Reach out any time or personal message me if you'd like
Re: Miscarried today
DST T4L
Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!
Me: 26 | DH: 27
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.