I've seen several posts about significant others not quite understanding how we feel right now...the spit up covered jammies/sweats we wear, hair in a quick bun, no make up, (in my case I rarely have on a bra because LO nurses so much lol) ect. Unfortunately I think the guys can't relate to how hard it can be to take care of LO's all day and not have much time for ourselves or to get pretty, or even want to get pretty. Anywho, in case no one's told you today, you are all beautiful! Doesn't matter if your not back at you pre-pregnancy weight or you look like a "new mommy mess" :-).