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Back - If you'll have me *TW

tinypikachutinypikachu member
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Hi, ladies

I was on this board when DH and I were TTC and was lucky enough to get a BFP on our second cycle on October 17. Fast forward three weeks and I'm now waiting for the miscarriage to happen. Our hearts are broken and we're not ready to get back to hardcore TTC right away. I think we might be NTNP after the next cycle. That being said, I have a few reasons to be here... I was hoping I could lurk here and participate every now and then and, mostly, because I missed you guys and the ambience here terribly. I always loved how positive and friendly you all are and I hope I can return to this community even if I'm benched at the moment.
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    PeggyOlsonFTWPeggyOlsonFTW member
    I'm so sorry @AlwaysAuntNeverMom *big hugs*

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    BFP #1 12/2012, DS born 8/2013
    BFP #2 7/2015, MMC and D&C 9/2015
    BFP #3 11/2015, CP
    BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016




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    kcolly32kcolly32 member
    So sorry @AlwaysAuntNeverMom, hugs and positive vibes sent your way.
    Expecting baby #1 August 2016 
    Already have three furbabies- Blake, Sydney, and Chester 


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    sboston06sboston06 member
    So sorry for your loss :(
    Me (32) & DH (35)
    Married 10.10.10
    DD born 7.25.16 <3
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    sldp123sldp123 member
    Oh no, I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.



    DS: June 2008
    Married: July 2015
    BFP: 5/20/16  |  EDD: 1/28/17  |  Twin boys born 1/16/17
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    chrlyrchrlyr member
    So sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.
    DS 12.02.11

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    Mlight28Mlight28 member
    So sorry,@alwaysauntnevermom. :( T&P for you and DH.
    Married 2011
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    Fur child: One awesome Golden Retriever
    IUI August 2016  : Cancelled due to polyp
    September 2016: Polyp removal/hysteroscopy
    October 2016: IUI #1- BFN
    November 2016: IUI #2- BFN
    December 2016: IUI #3 - BFN
    January/February 2017 - IVF + ICSI + PGD
    March 2017 - FET

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    jhems776jhems776 member
    I am incredibly sorry for your loss. So many internet hugs to you.
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    HarryPotterandCatsHarryPotterandCats member
    So sorry for your loss. Hugs to you


    TTC since June 2015
    DH {29} Me {26}
    PCOS Diagnosis | September 2015
    IF Specialist | November 2015
    Provera | November 2015 | 179 Days since last AF
    HSG | December 2015 | All Clear
    Provera | January 2016 | 46 Days since last AF
    1st round of Femara 2.5mgs | January 2016 | No response
    Provera | February 2016 | 44 Days since last AF
    2nd round of Femara 5mgs | March 2016 | O CD18 | AF 3/28/2016
    3rd round of Femara 5mgs | March/April 2016 | No response | AF 5/6/2016
    4th round of Femara 7.5mgs | May 2016 | BFP June 4, 2015
    EDD: 2/15/2017 | Loss Discovered: 6/11/2016 | NMC: 6/15/2015
    Gonal-F 75 IU upped to 100 IU | June 2016 | IUI June 29, 2016 | Beta: July 13, 2016 | AF 7/12/2016
    Gonal-F 75 IU upped to 112.5IU | July 2016 | IUI July 27, 2016 | Beta: August 10, 2016 | + Beta 171!
    BFP on Digi 8/8/2016 | Beta #2: 396 = 39 hour doubling time | Beta #3: 1659 = 34 hour doubling time
    First ultrasound: August 17, 2016; 5 weeks; Gestational Sac and yolk
    Second ultrasound: August 25, 2016; 6W+1D; Heartbeat 105bpm
    Third ultrasound: August 31, 2016; 7 weeks; Heartbeat 136bpm
    Graduated from RE: August 31, 2016
    EDD: April 17, 2017


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    jsassyjsassy member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs.
    Me: 35 - DH: 34
    Married: 08/2009
    BFP #1: 11/2010 - DS born 07/2011
    TTC #2: 02/2014
    RE Dx-Unexplained IF: 06/2015
    BFP #2: 08/12/15 - MC 08/27/15
    BFP #3: 03/11/16 - CP
    BFP #4: 04/09/16 - DD born 12/2016  <3


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    gonetotheseagonetothesea member
    So sorry to hear that. Good vibes are coming your way!
    Married 10/4/2014 (10-4, good buddy!)
    Baby Boy #1 born 1/9/17
    Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
    "It's when you know you're licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what.  You rarely win, but sometimes you do."  -Atticus Finch, To Kill A Mockingbird








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    jolydanjolydan member
    Really Sorry for your loss :(
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    KASGKASG member
    Oh no!!!!!

    Of course we will have you. So sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
    Me: 28
    DH: 29
    Married: 7/4/15
    TTC #1 since marriage
    BFP 11/17/15 -- EDD 7/31/16


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    MamaMunnMamaMunn member
    So sorry :( Hugs and thoughts being sent your way. 

    Me: 28 DH: 29
    Married: August 2014
    TTC #1 Since March 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS March 2016
    SA results normal April 2016
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + TI = BFN
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + IUI = BFN
    Uterine polyp removed July 2017
    Round 1 IVF January 2018




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    ArtlessIbexArtlessIbex member
    I'm so very sorry. Please come and be with us as often as you are comfortable.
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    jennifer0428jennifer0428 member
    im sorry that happened, stick around though and participate as you like :)
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    WorkingOnMyNightCheeseWorkingOnMyNightCheese member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of good thoughts and internet hugs your way.


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    belle714belle714 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers coming your way
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    ReesaAnne16ReesaAnne16 member
    I'm so sad to hear this :(  we're here if you need a (virtual) shoulder to cry on. 

    Me 34 DH 36 Married since July 2010 
    MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
    TTC #1 since June 2015 
    Aug 2016 - May 2017  6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN
    April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo
    June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved. 
    Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature
    5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP!
    May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy

    TTC #2 since July 2019
    July 2019 - FET - BFN
    Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues
    Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy
    July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy


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    beachbunnyxo123beachbunnyxo123 member
    So sorry for your loss
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    OrangeEvOrangeEv member
    My whole heart jumped when I saw this thread. I'm so sorry!!
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    Autumnrae07Autumnrae07 member
    So sorry for yalls loss.
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    JournoGrl23JournoGrl23 member
    I'm sorry for your loss.
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    virginiahamvirginiaham member
    I'm so sorry @AlwaysAuntNeverMom.
    me . early 30's | h . mid 30's | < 3 . 2013

    ntnp #2 . summer 2018

    *siggy warning*

    ttc#1 . jul 2015
    mmc . mar 2016 | 6w2d
    dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
    tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
    BFP! . jan 2017
    DD . oct 2017

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    AL_TwinCitiesAL_TwinCities member
    I'm so sorry! Of course we'll have you! When you are ready, even if NTNP, the TTCAL board has been helpful to me - it may be worth joining over there as well as here. It's really nice to have other loss moms to relate to.
    me 30; DH 35
    TTC since May 2014.
    Aug 2014 BFP, EDD April 22, 2015. Low progesterone, started suppositories. Loss at 5w6d.
    Nov 19, 2015 BFP at 13 dpo, EDD July 29, 2016. MMC discovered 12/29 (9+4). Natural miscarriage 1/16 (12+1).
    AMH results 0.42, 1.2; FSH 12.1, AFC 10, dx DOR. 
    RPL testing results normal. Nurse recommended progesterone suppositories in TWW.
    Clomid + trigger + TI cycle August 2016 - failed. Thin lining.
    Femara + trigger + TI cycle December 2016 - failed. Thin lining.
    Short LP (8 days).
    Acupuncture & Chinese herbs starting January 2017, lengthened LP to 10 days 

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    MEA0320MEA0320 member
    So sorry for your loss. Sending hugs >:D<
    Me: 30 DH: 32
    Married: 09/18/2009
    TTC #1: 01/2015
    BFP #1: May 2015 | EDD: Jan 2016 | MC: Jun 2015
    TTC#2: 07/2015


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    MamaBishMamaBish member
    I'm so very sorry to see this. You are absolutely welcome to come back. Big hugs to you!
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    🌈  Preemie 2016  🌈
    ♥ Stillborn 2015 ♥
            
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    m6aguam6agua member
    I'm so sorry for your loss and I completely understand what you are going through. I too am in the process of waiting to miscarry. Hang in there.
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    TTC#1 July 2015 
    • BFP: 9/16/15 — MC: 11/8/15 Blighted Ovum
    • BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
    TTC#2 April 2019 
    • BFP: 9/12/19 — EDD 5/15/20

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    skiingstarkskiingstark member
    edited November 2015
    Sorry for your loss :(

    If you need to talk about the option of a D&C let me know. I just had mine a couple weeks again on Oct 23.


    Married to my Soul Mate since 09/06/09

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    MC 10.23.15 @ 10 weeks
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    addyplusoneaddyplusone member
    Hugs!! Very sorry for your loss! Of course you are welcome here as often as you would like!


    Addison (DD) born 6/10/12
    M/C 3/3/14 Due 10/8/14
    Rainbow Koen (DS) born 7/9/16


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    DaAliDShowDaAliDShow member
    Oh no!!! I'm so sorry this is happening! T&P, and hugs to you. :(
    FKA alicedavid2013

    Me: 30 & DH: 37
    Married: September 2013
    TTC #1 since September 2015
    BFP 1/8/16 - MC 1/20/16

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    ButterMyBiscuitButterMyBiscuit member
    Hugs!
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    housewifehobbyisthousewifehobbyist member
    So sorry to hear this. You are welcome to lurk and snark to your heart's content.  
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    MNturnsVAMNturnsVA member
    Oh no, I'm so sorry......I hate that you are having to go through this.  Please be good to yourself and take all the time you need to process all the many emotions you have to be going through.  You are always welcome to participate    :)

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    rkstro2rkstro2 member
    @AlwaysAuntNeverMom I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    lrg14lrg14 member
    So sorry for your loss.
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    izza2izza2 member
    I am so, so sorry for you loss! T&P to you and your husband!

    Me: 30 | DH: 34 | DSS: 14 | DS: 4
    PG #2, EDD 10/12/2023

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    Tippy05Tippy05 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I'm right there with you, and it sounds like there are a lot of us here.  T&P to you and DH.

    I'm just starting to jump back in to conversations, and it's still weird that I'm even here.  The girls, of course, are awesome, but all I keep thinking about is I should be on my BMB instead.  I know, It's tough, but you aren't alone!

    If you need/want to PM me to chat, I'm here.
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    1faceinacrowd1faceinacrowd member
    I'm really sorry for your loss. I came off BC at the end of September and we conceived our first month of NTNP, and I miscarried a week after my BFP (on Halloween! UGH!). I'm back for similar reasons - to lurk and possibly participate. We're back to NTNP, although I am tracking my temps just for this month (I understand that post MC your cycle can be unpredictable and if we do get preggo, I want to be able to estimate when it happened).

    Let me know if you need support. I was only 5 weeks when I mc and I think I'm dealing with it okay... having my fiance (we get married next week!) by my side has been a HUGE help. I'm happy to be here for you if you need a friend!
    Me: 25  DH: 28

    Hubby's little boy - my wonderful step-son - born 5/23/10
    BFP#1: 06/2010...my beautiful baby girl born 3/7/2011
    BFP #2: 10/24/15...mc on 10/31/15
    BFP #3: 11/27/15. EDD 8/6/16

    "Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm." -Winston Churchill
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    MrsDho11MrsDho11 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss!
    Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016
    TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019





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    ChichigoChichigo member
    I'm sorry for your loss. I went through it earlier this year. Some days I feel nearly normal, other days I want to just scream.
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