Couldn't find heartbeat

emucoleman

I had my first u/s to date the pregnancy today and they couldn't find the HB. The baby is measuring around 7 weeks, which is earlier than my LMP, but I usually ovulate at least a week later than the "usual" so I had expected it to be around there anyway. When I talked to my doctor he said we are not going to do anything about it yet because there is still a chance that it's a viable pregnancy and we just didn't happen to find the HB this time. He said that the baby looks fine and healthy in all other regards. We will wait and if I continue to have no bleeding after a couple of weeks, we'll do another u/s and get a definitive answer. 

I just wish I knew for sure. It's hard to wait. I honestly don't have a lot of hope at this point...I just have a feeling it's not meant to be. I am so sad to be putting bad news on the board, because I know it makes me feel a little sick when I see other people's bad news, so I hope I'm not making anyone else scared for what might happen in their own pregnancies. I am going to take a little break from posting on the board until we find out for sure (might lurk). I wish you all happy and healthy pregnancies! 

dennyandlee

I am so sorry you are going through this! Thoughts and prayers for you and yours and hoping for the best!

Wyattnash00

Thinking of you and sending positive thoughts:)

mimi_8607

So sorry you have to go though this. Praying for you and your family.

Linsbins

Thoughts and prayers.

nekedfeet

Hoping for the best for you and your little one!! Things could change! Wishing you peace in the meanwhile....

hockeyfan42

Very sorry you're going through this. Ts&Ps to you.

NicknShan

Sending you prayers!  

Meglit89

Thinking of you. 

BPaisley

Sorry to hear that. Good luck - I hope it all turns out well!!

crdo

Hoping for the best. Thoughts with you.

MsBeachNJ

I'm sorry you're going through this! Stay positive and keep us posted! Best of luck for a healthy heartbeat at your next appointment!! 

VikingGirl12

Sending lots of prayers!

FutureMrsCAF

Praying for you!

itsStackie

Praying that all is well.

B2FlyGirl

Keep faith, every day is such a journey for your baby. Tomorrow could be the day it's ❤️ Develops. Praying for good news!

totsabounding

I am praying for you, hoping that everything turn out to be fine.  Take good care of yourself and keep us updated!

missbianca84

Praying for great news for your family. Hang in there and keep the faith!

cassy0407

Thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way! 

PressLove

Hearing news like that is hard.  Hopefully, the doctor is right and you just need a little time.

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cattuccino

I'm so sorry you're in a scary limbo.
Sending positive thoughts

Lilwatz

So scary.  But it's not over yet.    I hope the time passes quickly and you get to see your sweet baby again soon.

cjt121413

So sorry. I can imagine how anxious you might feel. Thoughts and prayers for you and your LO.

fishwife799

Sending positive vibes!

NamelessAria

I'm so sorry you're going through this. The waiting has to be terrible. I really hope everything turns out okay. And if it doesn't this time around I hope you get your take-home rainbow baby soon. T&P and creepy internet hugs.

Also, don't feel bad for posting bad news on the boards. We're all here to support each other through the good and especially through the bad when people need the most support.