November 2015 Moms

T-W Tuesday eve

Like Christmas Eve... it affects my tomorrow so starting now.

Don't discuss how stress can lead to early labor with middle school students. Long story short, 2-3p.m. was Very stressful, so blood pressure was super high at my 3:30 appt. Led to blood work being done just in case, even though it's probably just from school. I also have to do a 24hr urine collection. And stay home tomorrow. Ugh.

TWT goes to the 1 kid who pushed me over the limit in class, then the computer that glitched, and mostly to our administration who will hopefully have my long term sub chosen... by the end of next week. My due date is next Weds. Ugh. Thank you for extra stress jerk wads.
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  • Fellow teacher and feeling your pain! I'm just at the point where I'm really trying not to let anything get to me at work because going into labor at school sounds seriously awful!

    My long term sub isn't set up yet either :| We just have to do the best we can with the situation I suppose! Good luck with your tests and rest of your pregnancy! Stay strong :)
    susanb15brownloveone
  • Also a fellow teacher and I 100% understand! I started my leave today, I found out I had a sub at 2:30 pm Friday...
    susanb15brownloveone
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  • Ha, i was just thinking about starting this thread because i needed to vent! Sorry, long story, my husband is driving me crazy! He owns his own business and works from home, basically freelancing so it's always feast or famine around here. He's currently working on two different jobs with very tight deadlines and we really need the money because I've cut down my work hours. Anyway, I could go into labor at any day now, and for the past 2-3 days he has basically been doing everything else but working on those projects, it's stressing me out beyond belief!!
    susanb15brownloveone
  • My TWT goes out to the sudden horrendous cold I came down with yesterday. Woke up feeling great and after lunch I got a sore throat. Didn't think much of it. As the day progressed I started to feel even worse. I had to call out of work because at midnight I sill hadn't slept for more than an hour and had to be up at 1:30. Throat hurts..nose is burning and running and I have a god awful headache. :(
    brownloveone
  • Today's twatwaffle is DH. He got all pissed off at me this morning because I "only washed 1" of his dress shirts for work when I did laundry on Sunday. In actuality, I washed 2...he's just cranky because the other one doesn't fit that well and is an "emergency back-up".

    How the heck am I supposed to know which 4 of the 30 dress shirts in your closet actually fit if you don't tell me, ya ding-dong!? (Also, the reason I only washed 2 was that I didn't want the black dye from his brand-new jeans to ruin the 3 light-coloured dress shirts that I DO know fit if it ran! I figured 2 shirts would get him through Monday and Tuesday, and I would wash the rest today. Can't win for trying around here, it seems.)


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  • elbou said:

    Today's twatwaffle is DH. He got all pissed off at me this morning because I "only washed 1" of his dress shirts for work when I did laundry on Sunday. In actuality, I washed 2...he's just cranky because the other one doesn't fit that well and is an "emergency back-up".

    How the heck am I supposed to know which 4 of the 30 dress shirts in your closet actually fit if you don't tell me, ya ding-dong!? (Also, the reason I only washed 2 was that I didn't want the black dye from his brand-new jeans to ruin the 3 light-coloured dress shirts that I DO know fit if it ran! I figured 2 shirts would get him through Monday and Tuesday, and I would wash the rest today. Can't win for trying around here, it seems.)
    One of the reasons my DH does his own laundry!! I refuse to do it anymore. Plus I figure I do all the other laundry in the house so he is perfectly capable of doing his own.

    My TW again this week is me. Headache on one side of my head/ face for 2 days, very annoying.

    Oh heck DH is also on the list! He had the nerve last night to tell me to relaxe about when this baby is going to come, I need to not be so anxious. Seriously A-hole!! You have no clue what it's like to be 39+wks pregnant and know baby can come at any moment and everything your feeling you question... Could this be it?? He should know better, it's our 4th!!
    elbouJrstrom14brownloveone
  • My SO. I can't handle him right now. Not to toot my own horn, but I've been such a trooper for the most part for the past 34 or so weeks that I've known that I'm pregnant. I worked two jobs for the first half of my pregnancy, I've tried to keep up with the majority of the cleaning and housework since I stopped working, ect. In the past week or so I've found that I can't do as much as I was even just last month. It sucks and he doesn't get it. He watched me struggle putting baby things together/moving them into the room and didn't offer to help - he just let me. 

    I know he's stressed out too, just..djgiajgkf. UGH. Or maybe I'm the twat in this, who knows?
    mrssuperman918brownloveone
  • My TW goes to the skunk that sprayed our dog last night right before we went to bed. Didn't imagine our late night would be spent washing our dog 40,000 times outside and still having the house smell skunky from it wafting inside.

    And to my coworker that, no joke, says "You're still here?!" every morning. Thank you, Captain Obvious.

    And to one of the radio stations that started playing Christmas music 24/7 yesterday. I love it, but it's too soon. And it's 70 degrees in Michigan today so the music is really out of place!
    susanb15brownloveone
  • TW today has to go to my kid. Sorry LO but you need to figure out what you're doing. This is now week three of everyday contractions, back pain, pressure, etc. Even the Drs think you're stubborn! Lol. Hopefully you're not this much of a pain once you're out. ;)
    brownloveone
  • First Twat goes to the bump site, screw these technical issues!

    Second Twat goes to the teacher of my breastfeeding class last night. She spent the first hour rambling and prostelytizing about how wonderful breastfeeding is and its benefits and the history of BF and formula, and breastfeeding around the world, and the supposedly two hour class ended up running a half an hour over! I am pretty sure there was no point preaching about BF to a group of people who showed up to your class and who are all going through the trouble of trying to have an unmedicated birth at a birth center. I'm pretty sure we're all going to try to breastfeed whether you preach about it or not. We probably got 45 minutes worth of useful information the whole time. Ugh.
    VexedMommybrownloveone
  • Tw to my OB and my body. (Long, sorry)

    Went in to my appointment Thursday and ended up getting hooked on the NST monitor for a half hour in the office, LO'S heart rate kept dropping and it was picking up contractions I didn't know I was having so they sent me in to L&D. When I got there they had discussed that I was going to be an over night patient simply bc the added headache and neaseu with the contractions. I was there for about 2 hours when I really started feeling contractions every 3 min apart. Let me just say If i was at home and it would have started I wouldn't have known it was contractions. It felt like intense bladder cramps more than anything. Anyways, they then started talking about how they were going to get the surgery room ready (I'm scheduled for a repeat c-section) and to be prepared for the possibility of taking the baby out early. Well the dr showed up almost 8 later and did a sonogram. The sonogram showed old spots on the placenta which he said was concerning, and the umbilical cord is between her head and my cervix like a sandwich, because of that it was cutting off nutrients and blood flow (from what the dr said) to the baby. So he sends me home and sets up a NST basically for every 3 days until next tuesday. And I know a 99.7 temp isn't much to worry about, but it took 9 hours (the time I got to L&D to the time I got home) for that to go down 2 points.
    Yesterday at my NST I found out I'm 13lbs over my weight limit, and all of a sudden my stomach measures 2 weeks behind.

    I'm just so tired of feeling like crap, being told one thing after the other then it change multiple times, and all this stuff that "concerns" the dr but he continues to blow it off like it's nothing. And I also know I'm probably looking into it to much which only frustrates me more.. 1 week. I have 1 week left, I can do this!!
    Jacqwhitbrownloveone
  • TW to my OB!
    Had my 39 week appt today. After sitting in the waiting room for an hour and a half & in the room for thirty minutes dr finally came in. They scheduled to induce me tomorrow, then called 20 minutes after I left to tell me the spot was already filled and I will have to wait until next week to be induced! This is the third time this pregnancy that they have accidentally scheduled two people in one spot. I feel like they are so unorganized and it's so aggravating!! I just want my boy here already and to hopefully stop having to pee every five minutes! Maybe I'm just being a cry baby but oh well I'm over being pregnant!
    brownloveone
  • I've got a few of them.

    1) The Bump website. 

    2) Drive by posters here on The Bump website who suddenly decide after 9 months to tell us the status of their uterus and/or crotch fruit on their own special threads.  We have a sticky for that information and to be frank, if you've posted two or three times since March most of us are happy you had your child in the way we're happy for any human being that's had a healthy child but we just don't freaking care.  Go take care of your L&D or post updates to Twitter and FB or whatever social media site you've been regaling with your every insight into pregnancy for the last few months.  If you don't participate in the community, STFU. 

    3) My tailbone which is either fractured or bruised from a fall on Sunday.  It is excruciating to sit or stand and I am now afraid of L&D because of the pressure I will have in that area.  I had no worries about it before.  

    this. Also, sorry, but since we're in the month we're supposed to be delivering said crotch fruit, I really don't need a new thread for every person who is on their way to delivering their child. At this point your child is likely close to 37 weeks if not past and will do fine on the outside so labor is not a concern (in fact, it's supposed to happen). Same with the induction and c-section posts - your baby is still coming out of you and we've had plenty of threads discussing these experiences. Use the search function.
    taykerslakebrownloveone
  • My TW goes out to the lower half of my body. I'm so achy and uncomfortable and get these nice shooting pains all through my lady bits randomly during the day. Fun stuff!

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  • SO had the nerve to tell me I didn't do the dishes today. OH REALLY?!? Because it's not like I worked an 11 hour day, cooked, did the laundry, picked up your shit around the house, have class work to do and am 9 months pregnant. After telling him that he could easily do the dishes himself and help me out, he says "I always do the dishes". I believe he's referring to the one time he did them 2 weeks ago because I was sick in bed...
    brianna91chavezmodanz1brownloveone
  • I totally forgot that Gremlins is technically a part horror movie. WTAF is going on in this movie? I remember this being a mostly cute movie as a kid O.O

    I'm the twat for watching this apparently. Also, is it too early for Christmas decor to go up?
  • I totally forgot that Gremlins is technically a part horror movie. WTAF is going on in this movie? I remember this being a mostly cute movie as a kid O.O I'm the twat for watching this apparently. Also, is it too early for Christmas decor to go up?
    We already have our decor up!! 

    And eff that movie! 
    The chimney/Santa thing messed me up as a kid and I still can't watch it.
    itstheblackwidowbabybrownloveoneVexedMommy
  • I made the mistake of telling my grandma what they're estimating LO to weigh (has measured large through entire pregnancy, weight estimate at 35+4 was 6lbs 10oz, weight estimate yesterday at 37+1 was 8lbs 6oz). She doesn't understand how far off these estimates can be and is now trying to talk me into an elective c-section, which I would never consider unless medically advised, not to mention the fact that my practice does not do elective c-sections.. Blahhh....
    I just keep telling her to look at how huge my DH's head is. Of course LO is going to measure large when head circumference is part of the equation!
    Me: 28, DH: 40
    Married 9/28/13
    DS born 11/12/15
    EDD 8/13/18
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  • My fluffy feet...my pregnancy induced trigger thumb, yeah this shit is stupid. It only happens at night and wakes me from a dead sleep.

    Other than that, my client today who talked about her son who passed away for 2.5 hours. She really wore me out. I'm glad I can be a shoulder for people, but c'mon I'm 37 weeks preggers I really don't want to talk about such horrible things for that long.
    brownloveone
  • OB. I'm 36 +4 and baby is breech, hasn't dropped and the cord is around his neck. OB wrote a website on a sticky that says spinningbabies.com and handed it to me while walking away as I came out of the US room. When I gave her a wtf look she said that she'll see me next week and I'll probably just have a c-section while still walking away.
  • OB. I'm 36 +4 and baby is breech, hasn't dropped and the cord is around his neck. OB wrote a website on a sticky that says spinningbabies.com and handed it to me while walking away as I came out of the US room. When I gave her a wtf look she said that she'll see me next week and I'll probably just have a c-section while still walking away.

    Some doctors are just so freaking rude man!!! Ugh. Pissed me off!!!

    TW goes to the nurse who called my name in the waiting room today. My name is not common at ALL but come on lady, at least use half the letters in there and don't add 6 more. She called me Shnoodle!!!! Hahaha. I didn't sleep last night at all so I was already tired and pissed so I ignored her, though I knew she was calling me. My name sounds nothing like that or is spelled nothing like that with the exception of it starting with an S. This WOMAN says it louder!!! So I said my name correctly and walked to the back. Lol. Then my friend tells me shnoodle is a dog. Oh geeze even better!! 39+4 and LO is still snug as a bug. No action!
    brownloveone
  • A late TW addition, my DH has been under a lot of stress, I fully expected him to snap at some point, but when I asked him to breathe and back off, he decided to pull out the "Wtf do you have to do? You're going to be in f***ing bed all day, again." 
    He's had a lack of sleep and he's stressed, instead of fighting, I stayed silent, but that stung so bad. I haven't relished in being on bed rest at all. I'd give anything to still be working and helping with the burdens of housework and finances. 

    Gwennies
  • A late TW addition, my DH has been under a lot of stress, I fully expected him to snap at some point, but when I asked him to breathe and back off, he decided to pull out the "Wtf do you have to do? You're going to be in f***ing bed all day, again." 
    He's had a lack of sleep and he's stressed, instead of fighting, I stayed silent, but that stung so bad. I haven't relished in being on bed rest at all. I'd give anything to still be working and helping with the burdens of housework and finances. 

    Stress or no, I'd say this still warrants a conversation and an apology from your DH. My midwives refuse to put someone on bed rest unless it is essential to keeping the baby and momma healthy and safe.. DH should keep that in mind before he opens his mouth about it.
    DS1: Born 11.18.15
    DS2: EDD- 09.08.17

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  • My TW is waiting for LO to arrive. I am mentally done. I cannot do the things I enjoy because they hurt, like running, hiking, gardening, or going away further than an hour away because I can give birth at anytime. Being home all day is painfully boring!!! I have done all the nesting things and honestly I really don't care anymore about it. Not enough money to go Christmas shopping yet. I feel as though I am depressed and lethargic. I really have to motivate myself to get out of bed now when I use to wake up early and have everything done by 9! Gonna see if DH will stay home with me tomorrow so we can go do something.
    cdepperschmidtGwenniescarajadep
  • A late TW, but I felt it was worthy. Whomever orders the pee cups at my OB office is my TW. They replaced the normal ones with ones half the size! I know I should be an expert at this by now, but having a 39 week pregnant belly obstructing my reach makes it harder to fill a smaller target! I walked in today and looked at the bin and instantly thought "TW". Help a girl out, c'mon!
    MargaretC5RaisingJuliansadyy131semulcahy
  • I haven't been able to get a pee sample without getting it on my hand.. basically since I started.  I haven't ever figured out the correct positioning to do this without making a mess, haha.
    DS1: Born 11.18.15
    DS2: EDD- 09.08.17

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  • Definitely late but The Bump is my TW!!!!!

    I just got an e-mail about how my "baby is 1 week old" Ummmm, no. Just NO!  X(
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