My girly needs to be held to fall asleep. She fights it so much even while being held. With fighting she will take sometimes 30 mins to fall asleep and only take a 30 min nap. For night time she still wakes up at least twice a night. Pretty much all of the time I feed her to sleep so she will go to bed. (I know it's a bad habit) On the few times we have tried to let her cry it out, she will just scream until I give up and get her and then continue to cry in my arms. So won't self sooth at all. I really don't like pacifiers so we need some ideas. Please!