Hi everyone - looking for support from others who have gone through a similar situation as us. We've been going through the IVF process and have done PGS with our embryos. We've now done 3 transfers (1 fresh, 2 FET) and all are BFN - I'm so disappointed since I thought doing PGS would help increase our chances. Anyone else gone through something similar? How many cycles did it take for BFP?
Re: IVF with PGS
Me 39 DH44
1st DE FET 5/16-BFN
2nd DE FET 7/18-BFP
8/17 Baby HR 140/min EDD 4/6/17
Despite that, I haven't seen in here the other option for why it might not be working. Not all REs are created equal and success rates can swing wildly from one office to another. For instance, PGS testing can damage embryos in labs that aren't extremely proficient. (Our office has great success rates for our age range, but only does PGS on 19% of fresh cycles. Despite how large the office is, that's not a lot of practice for their embryologists. My DH worried they wouldn't be skilled enough and that factored into our decision to opt out. True or not, we worried about it since they don't provide the number of PGS cycles that are successful and got cagey when we asked.)
If they can't give you a reason for repeat failure, it may be the office your at, not you. Often we are trained by infertility to look at faults in ourselves, but if you think they made an error or their SART statistics are noticeably lower than average, I'd say try a new RE before you blame yourself. My suggestion:Trust your gut, even though you've been told repeatedly it's the problem.