We are currently grieving our 40 week old still born daughter (cord accident). Approx. 2 years ago, we also had a 12 wk m/c. I am very worried to get preg. again even though recent preg. was normal/healthy. I am scared for obv. reasons. I am seriously considering surrogacy. When did you decide to have another? What kind of couselling/testing did you do before?