Being called a bad mom by Co worker

twiggles90

My Co worker says my daughter will forget I'm here mom because I go to school for an hr three days a week and I work nights. I want to punch her

n3na94

Do not listen to her! You are a GREAT mother. And I congratulate you for continuing studying and wanting a better future for you and also for your daughter. She will not forget you. I myself also go to school 2 times a week for 2 hours. There's other moms here on the board that travel for business and they come home and their babies still remember them. Also your baby girl will sleep during the night and when you come home you'll get to see her wake up and spend the day with her! You carried your daughter for 9 months ( who are we kidding it was practically 10 ) and that bond can NEVER be broken! Your daughter is the only one that will ever be close to your heart and has heard your heartbeat! All you're doing is working hard for a better future for your daughter and I know one day it will be rewarding for you both! Enjoy the time you get with your daughter, even if it's just during the day, you're doing great and she's lucky to have you as her mommy. God bless you two!

Ckorines

Kick her in the chin. She sounds like a real gem.

carlyyo

That is terrible. You should punch her! Jk But seriously that is a messed up thing to say. I think not only will she of course remember you, but she will also remember a mom that was smart, hard-working, and put her family first by wanting to provide the best for her family!

randa923

You should punch her! And tell her to f*ck off! Oh that boils my blood!

shaley29

Wow..people have some balls.

ashleytiff

THE FUCK

SBbabyonboard

Omg I would snap on anyone who said anything like that to me!! They should congratulate you on being able to do so much and have a new baby!! That is like super momma!!

twiggles90

Thank you guys, ya I told my manager I was gonna slap her, if she cont. I will tell our boss. If she does it again I will never partner with her at work again.

PurpleBookmark

Ugh, what a jerky thing to say. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

VToman

Since obviously no one taught her 1. manners, and 2. to mind her own business, maybe she had a bad mother.

KAR8706

That is very frustrating and not right. Your baby will always know who you are. I am assuming you're going to school to better yourself and doing what is needed to better things for your LO as well so she can just suck it!

massey25

Punch her. Just make sure it's not on any cameras

ChristinaWild

I'm on board with everyone else - punch away. And make sure to tell her that no one asked for her damn opinion

kinseymason

I work two jobs, carrying about a 60 hour week on average. It's hard being away from LO that much, so I understand, but you're doing what you have to, to better their life. Don't ever listen to someone else's ridiculous parenting comments. No one knows better what best for you and baby more than you!

acciocoffee

My mom worked full-time and I always knew she was my mom. Your coworker is an idiot.

AziaNick

WOW. Amazing what people say