Has anyone seen this new article/study findings?
https://news.yahoo.com/pregnant-women-absolutely-no-drinking-docs-105543803.htmlWhat are your thoughts on it? Were you planing on 'drinking until its Pink'? What is your current stance towards alcohol for when you get pregnant?
My thoughts: I was under the new school thought process that I've been told from several friends who had recent pregnancies. They informed me, that they're doctor noted one glass of wine a week was ok, but don't over indulge. Even my own OBGYN has informed me it's ok to 'Drink until Pink' as long as I'm binge drinking every night. However, after reading this article, I'm beginning to wonder, should I cut out all alcohol to be safe now that we're TTC. I mean yes, there's that two week time between period and ovulation that I could drink, but should I obstain for the other two weeks just to be sure? What are your thoughts?
Re: Drinking and Pregnancy
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For me, I will be stopping drinking entirely once pregnant. One occasional glass of wine just doesn't have a ton of appeal to me. Currently when I drink, it's a few beers while out with H, and that's clearly a no-no. I think I'll be fine without for nine months. I will, however, drink 'til it's pink. Baby and mom don't share a blood supply in the first few weeks of pregnancy, and if I test before a big night out of any sort I am 100% comfortable that drink til it's pink will be fine.
I do have concerns, from a cultural perspective, that there is a ton of guilt and fear mongering being thrown at pregnant and TTC women. Avoiding alcohol is a good idea with some science behind it, if conflicting, but some of the food restrictions (deli meat?) are ridiculous. Currently many women blame themselves if something goes wrong, and I fear a move towards a culture where women are blamed by others when something goes wrong is not far behind. Or maybe I'm just reading too many feminist blogs :P
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You guys all make excellent points - the science isn't totally accurate and never really prove cause. But for me that makes me want to be MORE cautious, not less. If we have a limited idea of how much alcohol will contribute to FAS or other adverse affects, why risk it? I don't see drinking alcohol as an essential part of my life or routine and I'm completely fine with cutting it out. So for me it's not a big deal to just turn it down.
I'm benched from TTC right now, so I am drinking. But I plan to stop as soon as I start TTC again, I don't even think I'll wait for pink this time. Just doesn't seem worth it.
This isn't a personal belief about what anyone else should be doing, but rather just a way for me to lower my stress level throughout the process. I know that I would worry about the unknown/unstudied and/or being the 1% more than an occasional drink is worth to me.
I second this ^^
I'm not personally concerned about drinking in the TWW but once I am pregnant there will be no more alcohol for me, and I love my wine, happy hour, drinks with friends etc. To me, when people say they want one drink on occasion or whatever the reason may be, it just seems like a drink or two would not be worth the risk. Maybe it will affect your baby, maybe it won't, but is one drink worth it? Not to me. I will forgo the drinking if/when I become pregnant.
But until then, cheers \:D/