I'm 30wks, have complete PP w/no bleeds thus far (Thank God). I've had a previous c-section with my daughter almost 4yrs ago. Today we had a scare (brownish red mucus type discharge) so my OB asked me to come in to check things out. All looks good so far no bleeding, still nice and shut in there. We also discussed my c-section date since she reconfirmed that I would be a repeat c-section and it would have to happen between 36-37wks due to the CPP. Well I turn 37wks the week of Thanksgiving and my OB will be out of town so we went with 36wks.
My question is how do babies do at 36wks? I know all cases are different but I had by daughter at 41wks and she was only 6lb 6oz so I can't imagine how little this baby will be having 5 less wks to cook. Also, I plan of EBF so I'm hoping my milk supply cooperates.
Thanks in advance ladies.
Re: How well do babies do when born at 36wks?
But seen as you know you will be delivering at 36wks I think you need to bring up your concerns with your OB. Ask any questions you have that will help ease your mind. While people on TB are here to help & give advice where they can no one is a health professional(that i know of) so we can't give you accurate responses that your OB could. We can only go from experience which as you know everyone's is different.
I've been having discussions with my consultant about this as I am going to have to deliver early. She advised me that there are studies that show babies born earlier than 39 weeks can have some cognitive impairment - lower IQ and not meeting milestones, so the longer they can stay in, the better. She said that 38 weeks or over would be best.
Could you not wait until after Thanksgiving? It seems a bit much that your Dr would want to deliver earlier just so she can be away for the holiday.
This. Why can't you wait until after Thanksgiving? I'd think that 37 or 38 weeks would be a lot better than 36, and you're not likely to go into labor spontaneously that early, so there shouldn't be a risk there.
I had two girlfriends recently delivery babies at 37 weeks (one went into labor spontaneously, the other had to be induced for high blood pressure and low platelet count). Both babies were healthy and didn't need to go to the NICU. However, neither of them was able to breastfeed. The babies hadn't developed the latching/sucking reflex before they came out. Both of my friends very seriously wanted to breastfeed, so they were disappointed. They both exclusively pump, which is totally fine but not what they really wanted to do. And that's not the only reflex that might be underdeveloped if you deliver early.
I'd have serious misgivings about a doctor that would want to deliver early just to preserve her vacation schedule. I mean if you were going to be 38-39 weeks before Thanksgiving, ok, that's a pretty normal window to schedule a repeat C-section. 36 weeks just sounds too early to me. But I'm not a medical professional.
If I was in your position I would have another doctor perform the c-section and give my baby another week to cook. Obviously development is unique to each individual baby and one mother's 36 week old may be perfectly fine and another's under-developed.
With your specific placental condition your OB is following acceptable medical practice by delivering you early, but to deliver a whole week earlier just to accommodate her Thansgiving vacation seems grossly irresponsible. The longer baby stays in the better chance they have at being healthy when they come out.
My brother's BFF was three months premature and weighed 1 lb something ounces. He always seemed normal (health wise) as a kid. Of course, I wouldn't really know about any of his issues. He's a perfectly fine adult now. He is legally blind in one eye. When he was a teenager, his mom took his back to the hospital he was born at. The nurse remembered him. She found a baby who was the same exact size as he was and he (and his mom) met with the baby's dad. It gave that dad so much hope to see a normal teenager who was born early and small, just like his tiny baby.
Of course, there are full term unhealthy babies and unhealthy premature babies. My mom said it was very hard having a sick baby (me) that she couldn't be with all the time.
My two cents from someone who has researched preterm babies, I had a scare with my daughter at 30, you need to keep that baby inside for as long as you can. Have another Dr perform the cs.
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The new ACOG guidelines state that full term is 39 weeks.
https://m.acog.org/About-ACOG/News-Room/News-Releases/2013/Ob-Gyns-Redefine-Meaning-of-Term-Pregnancy?IsMobileSet=true
ETA: Speak to your OB about your concerns regarding low birth weight at 36 weeks.
As I said above, sometimes an early delivery is the lesser of two evils and it has to happen.
I've no idea if anything that I've become in my life was a result of that or if being born at 40 weeks would have changed anything about me. But one thing I'm fairly certain of. Being born at 40 weeks, or as close to that as possible, wouldn't have hurt me at all.
Your OB sounds very negligent..
And FYI to all involved, I am a NICU physician and while there are risks at 36 weeks, the overall risk to baby is quite low. I think the OP would appreciate not being made to feel guilty for delivering before 40 weeks.
And FYI to all involved, I am a NICU physician and while there are risks at 36 weeks, the overall risk to baby is quite low. I think the OP would appreciate not being made to feel guilty for delivering before 40 weeks.
QBF***
More people are speaking with sense on this thread. It gives me hope.
You might try actually reading and comprehending the comments you so rudely refer to as "shockingly ignorant."
Do what you feel most comfortable with. Don't let your doctor make that decision for you on a matter of convenience unless it's because of your, and your babies health.
@whit3183 @Mally2011 thank you ladies for your posts. Personally, I found them informative and I learned something new.
My son was born at 36+1, and was perfectly healthy. He has no cognitive or developmental issues, in fact he's extremely bright for his age and always has been.
I wish you the best of luck, OP.
Op.... so sorry u had to make this tough decision! I hope everything went great
This post is from October. Just fyi. It was resurrected because someone wanted an update.