My Husband

babyd234

OMG I am so mad at my husbend he is not supporting me in anything I am doing for the pregnancy. I can't talk to him at all. He just makes me so angry. He don't tell me what he is doing with the money and when I ask he just yells at me. Do u have any idea what I can do to help me talk to him.

saladflambe

Would it be possible to see a therapist together?

proudparent2b

Maybe instead of demanding him to be on your level, you need to meet him where he is mentally and emotionally. Based on his reactions, it sounds like he is scared and possibly doesn't feel ready for a child yet.

Why not give him some space and then schedule a date with him? Don't talk about the baby, money, or any other touchy subjects- just work on getting back to a comfortable place for both of you. After awhile (hours, days or weeks depending on his maturity level and current enotional state), he should let you know what's going on.

I think it's important to remember that he married you, so he is invested in your relationship. Further, as his wife, you know him better than anyone else. There's something that brought you together and helped you make it through all your ups and downs so far- don't lose sight of what that was because that is what will help you get through this challenge and all the others that life will inevitably throw your way.