May 2016 Moms

My Husband

babyd234babyd234 member
edited October 2015 in May 2016 Moms
OMG I am so mad at my husbend he is not supporting me in anything I am doing for the pregnancy. I can't talk to him at all. He just makes me so angry. He don't tell me what he is doing with the money and when I ask he just yells at me. Do u have any idea what I can do to help me talk to him.

Re: My Husband

  • Would it be possible to see a therapist together?
    ~~Signature Trigger Warning~~

    Me: 32; Him: 36
    Married: Oct 20, 2013
    BFP 1: Aug 31, 2015
    EDD 1: May 12, 2016
    DD1 Emma born May 12, 2016
    An Honest Account of New Motherhood (with Postpartum Anxiety, Depression, and OCD)

    BFP 2: October 07, 2019
    EDD 2: June 20, 2020


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  • Maybe instead of demanding him to be on your level, you need to meet him where he is mentally and emotionally. Based on his reactions, it sounds like he is scared and possibly doesn't feel ready for a child yet.

    Why not give him some space and then schedule a date with him? Don't talk about the baby, money, or any other touchy subjects- just work on getting back to a comfortable place for both of you. After awhile (hours, days or weeks depending on his maturity level and current enotional state), he should let you know what's going on.

    I think it's important to remember that he married you, so he is invested in your relationship. Further, as his wife, you know him better than anyone else. There's something that brought you together and helped you make it through all your ups and downs so far- don't lose sight of what that was because that is what will help you get through this challenge and all the others that life will inevitably throw your way.
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