Baby Fever

eh3473

It's always there but does anyone else feel like the intensity comes and goes?

I have 6 best friends delivering babies September-November. I'm happy for them but it is making the want/jealousy so much worse.

misshopeful1

For me it's always there, made harder with each additional unsuccessful month and when people we know/work with are KU.
It's a constant struggle to push sad thoughts from my mind, but it's often a battle I lose.

vssbrm

Each time I find out some one is pregnant it gets harder and I get jealous. I have frinds/family that have had 3 kids in the amount of time we have been trying. But october is going to be great and so many of us are going to get BFPs. When ever I see a BFP here I feel no jealousy only joy for that person and the knowledge that it is possible!!!

Kimmie0812

I find it very challenging to stay positive and fight the jealousy. Been trying for a couple of years and have watched others having multiple kids in that time. I try to be optimistic and view all of the other positives in my life!!

twomommiestobe

One of the best things I read was to be happy and support those people you know who just got their bfp the way you want them to react when you finally get yours.

Ok, anyone who knows me by now knows I am NOT good at this. For almost everyone I know, I am extremely happy and I live it 100% but I FAIL when it come to our (not any more now that we have moved to ivf) donor's wife. She's awful, I truly think she won't make a good parent, and her snide comments have been over the top. Lol, but the rest of the world (like my cousin who is having her third) I am over the top excited and loving her and the baby. You know why? Bc I KNOW she will be there jumping up and down for joy with me!