okay, so, I know we are a long way from needing a name and we don't even have the sex yet, BUT, my SO and I have a really extremely tough time agreeing on names. However, there is one name that we have both always loved for a boy and that is 'Cain.' We are both devout non denominational Christians who plan to raise our children with such standards and we are fully aware of the biblical meanin behind Cain which is the sole reason why we struggle with it. I have gone back and fourth thinking: but there are so many Adam's in this world and Adam was a sinner!! Or: it's just a name, it can't define his character!! But then I have moment where I'm feeling like if he led a bad life or something terrible ever happened, I would always wonder and never forgive myself for "cursing" my son and setting the tone for his life with the name of a sinner. My SO believes that a name is just a name and our son will be who he is based on the genes we gave him and the way we raise him and that naming him Cain will not effect him negatively in any way other than maybe an occasional run in with a judgemental person. I, however, go back and fourth.
Thoughts on this?
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I just can't see naming my kid after the first murderer. I don't think it's a cursed name or anything, though.
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That being said, while I definitely enjoy reading the Bible and my relationship with God, I'm definitely not your typical Christian (and I wouldn't even call myself Christian, tbh).
I also love names with an edge to them. We've been considering Biblical names, and I definitely lean towards ones that are a little more.....wicked?
I say if you like it, go for it.
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Since Cain is bringing up some doubts, I'd say keep an open mind! Something else might pop up that you both like even better (and won't be connected to the first murderer)
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I would name your baby what you like but be prepared for any side eyes
Also, if you like the way Cain sounds, how about Keane?
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DD is Amelia and even though it's not bad in any way I get annoyed when people say, "Oh, like Amelia Earhart?" You want your child to be their own person and not be "named after someone". Of course that's my opinion.
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That aside, I am not Christian, but I am a person of faith , and I cannot get around the whole "he committed the first sin on earth" thing. But most of the Old Testament is ignored anyways, so if you're in love with the name, go for it
Also: Technically the Old Testament is not a part of either faith. Some stories have the same characters but the stories are pretty different and they all have separate books. People of the Jewish faith have the Torah, Muslims have the Quran. And like I mentioned earlier, Jews would know it by a different spelling and in the Quran neither of the brothers are mentioned by name.
The masoretic text (MT) is the official Hebrew text for both the Torah and the first five books of the Christian Old Testament (in most Christian denominations).
So it'd be the same.
The Muslim stories are rather different, and if I'm correct, not actually canon? Like, the Quran uses the stories, but does not retell them, and the stories themselves are not recorded in a text that is marked as sacred. Like the Quran just treats it as given that Ishmael was (almost) sacrificed, not Isaac, and that Jesus spoke from his crib, but there's no authoritative text that retells those stories.