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None of your business FB post goes viral...

babyexpressbabyexpress member
edited September 2015 in Infertility
I saw this on the TTGP board and thought some of you ladies would enjoy it also
Woman’s ‘none of your business’ Facebook post about children goes viral





Married: 8/29/2009
TTC- since we got married (off and on)
TTC with focus: Since July 2015
Currently had 2 rounds of failed IUIs, failed TI monitored cycle
December 2015: Starting 1st IVF cycle
January 2016: Retrieval
March 2016: Pending Transfer (I have 3 PGS tested embryos waiting for a womb)
April 2016: BFP, the old fashioned way.

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Re: None of your business FB post goes viral...

  • lilmissslplilmissslp member
    Love it! That lady rocks. It really is no ones business and ppl have no idea how hurtful their "innocent" questions and comments are.
    TTC #1 since August 2013
    Unexplained/ Endo
    Medicated IUIs # 1-3 BFN
    IVF #1- BFN
    FET #1- BFP; Ectopic pregnancy found at 7wks
    FET #2- February 2017 BFP  Beta #1- 119 (8dp5dt) Beta #2- 475 (12dp5dt)
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  • baker+RNbaker+RN member
    yes
    yes
    yes
    yes
    yes
    yes
    SO MUCH YES.
    ME: 33 / DH: 37
    MFI, NTNP x 10yrs
    6/2017: started IVF + ICSI cycle #1, antagonist protocol (menopur/gonal-f/ovidrel)
    7/17/2017: ER, 16 eggs retrieved, 15 mature and ICSI'd, 7 fertilized. 
    7/22/2017: 1 fresh day 5 embryo transfer, rest of embryos arrested at day 4 morula stage
    7/31/2017: BFN
    August: DH started clomid
    November 2017: Started metformin for egg quality
    March 2018: Planning to do IVF + ICSI, antagonist with HGH, freeze at 2pn stage for 2018 FET
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  • baker+RNbaker+RN member
    I love these responses as well. There's a variety you can choose from, depending on the person asking and your mood.


    ME: 33 / DH: 37
    MFI, NTNP x 10yrs
    6/2017: started IVF + ICSI cycle #1, antagonist protocol (menopur/gonal-f/ovidrel)
    7/17/2017: ER, 16 eggs retrieved, 15 mature and ICSI'd, 7 fertilized. 
    7/22/2017: 1 fresh day 5 embryo transfer, rest of embryos arrested at day 4 morula stage
    7/31/2017: BFN
    August: DH started clomid
    November 2017: Started metformin for egg quality
    March 2018: Planning to do IVF + ICSI, antagonist with HGH, freeze at 2pn stage for 2018 FET
    Report Reply
  • BBJones0105BBJones0105 member
    Yes, I loved this!!!
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  • 2legbaby2legbaby member
    Awesome! So wish I could post this to my FB! Good for her!
    ******TW*****
    Me 39 DH44
    Married 8/2/14
    TTC 9/14
    Dx: PCOS, blocked L fallopian tube, suspect poor egg quality
    MFI (low #, poor morphology)
    IVF #1 9/15 Failed
    IVF #2 12/15 Failed
    1st DE FET  5/16-BFN :(
    2nd DE FET 7/18-BFP :)
    8/17 Baby HR 140/min EDD 4/6/17
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  • PCOSat25PCOSat25 member
    Let me start off by saying I love this post. I agree 100% that when and how my DH and I start a family is no ones business than our own.
    That said when people ask questions I know it is out of curiosity and not malicious intent. They ask because they want to be a part of our lives and know what is going on. They ask because they want us to be happy and they want to help.
    When DH and I started this journey we didn't tell anyone. We didn't want to come off rude so we fielded questions with nonspecific answers like "we'll just wait and see" and "when the time is right". It became more and more painful for the topic to be continuously brought up and we finally made the decision to let our family and friends in. They became a part of our journey. They provide support and allow us to share information on our own terms when we wish.

    When we finally just gave purple the honest answer we pretty much eliminated the rude prying question from our lives.
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