im currently 26 weeks, due Dec. 14th. Two of my close friends offered to throw me a baby shower when I first told them I was expecting (I was 8 weeks). Neither one of them have mentioned anything since. I know they are both busy people but it's starting to concern me that as I enter the third trimester nothing has been planned or even further discussed with me. I would have liked to have a shower in October before people get busy with the holidays. What do I do? Is it rude to just come out and ask?