I am looking for a couple buddies to connect with that are over 40 on this crazy, emotional, exciting journey. I am 42 and DH is 41. We started TTC#1 (and likely only) when we got married in June but did nothing but have more sex until last month when I used on OPK. This month I started temping and am using a fertility monitor. I love these boards but find that most people on here are younger and don't necessarily understand the pressures and risks of being over 40 and TTC.