Same here, haven't had sex since before BFP. I am in bed by 8pm lights out, too tired, lazy, feeling fat and gross. I do not have any desire to roll in the hay at all. I feel bad for my DH we have been intimate in other ways, but I would rather wait until I am ready rather than force it too soon.
I'm 10w2d and since BFP it's been less than 5 times. My DH and I want to but he's scared it'll lead to spotting and a miscarriage again. He just doesn't want to do anything that might harm the baby. I'm hoping once we're out of the 1st trimester and the doc talks to him about it at the next appointment his fear will subside.
Physically I'm feeling pretty hot. My breasts are massive and the thickening of my waist I'm happy with cause I can feel the fullness in my abdomen from my uterus. I hope other MomsToBe can look at their bodies that way instead of feeling "fat". Rock your Bods! You're creating LIFE!
We've had sex once a week since we found out. I'm 6 weeks and found out at 3 weeks. DH wants more but I'm so tired. He works late so I'm normally in bed by then. Also I just started a second job when we found out, so that isn't helping. The job is done at the end of the month. Hoping we will have more time together then. So far no pain or bleeding from sex.
My interest in sex is down to 0. Right now, if it never happened again, I wouldn't blink twice over it. But I was the same way last time, except he was gone for most of the pregnancy. I had no urges, no sex drive, nada. Which was good for him cause he couldn't be there a whole lot with our first but I think he's feeling it this time. Poor guy, I give in but glad when it's over. I hate feeling like that but eh :-/
Re: Having sex
Physically I'm feeling pretty hot. My breasts are massive and the thickening of my waist I'm happy with cause I can feel the fullness in my abdomen from my uterus. I hope other MomsToBe can look at their bodies that way instead of feeling "fat". Rock your Bods! You're creating LIFE!
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019