So this is my first pregnancy . I have 2 bonus children. My mom offered to throw my shower out of state where I'm from and where she lives. My mil and SIL has offered to plan one here. Question is how involved were you with the planning part of your shower?
Re: baby shower involvement ?
There are a lot of ladies on here that will tell you not to be involved at all... But if your host knows you and your career they might really appreciate your input. Just don't step on toes or overstep your bounds, even if they do ask for input/help.
Also, bite your tongue if the event itself isn't going the way you would plan an event. The venue was not managing the event well at all and my mom was trying so hard to make everything work out well. Apparently they double booked my shower and another party and we're trying to rush things along. I was going nuts inside my head but again, it's not your place.