I had pretty openly discussed on this board that I was trying to VBAC my baby - to attain a "healing birth" to make up for how cheated and guilty I felt over my unnecessary csection with my first daughter. (Failed induction at 39 weeks due to "big baby" that was called after one round of cervadil and 8 hours of Pitocin. I never felt a contraction. My doctor told me after 8 hours of Pitocin that I'd never go into labor. I was exceptionally depressed about my csection and felt like an extreme failure as a result.)
My biggest fear was that I was not going to be able to go into labor based on the thought that was planted in my head from the OB I had with my first daughter. My due date came and went. I knew I had until September 8th (very liberal doctor this time!) which was 42.5 weeks to go into labor, but was exceptionally discouraged when my cervix was still unfavorable last Wednesday. I had hoped he could strip my membranes to see if it worked, and he said he wouldn't strip them because I just wasn't favorable for it. Again, I started to doubt my body. Every night I would go to sleep and try to put myself into a positive frame of mind to renew my strength. Well - I actually did go into labor Friday night (41 weeks exactly) ON MY OWN. Unfortunately, I did not achieve my VBAC - she decided to descend ear first rather than crown first and despite five hours of trying to reposition her, it just wasn't working. So I did end up with another csection.
Re: Failed VBAC - but a renewed sense of strength and self worth
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)