According to the deputy medical director for March of Dimes, the odds of having a second miscarriage are less than 3 percent. (
https://www.parents.com/pregnancy/complications/health-and-safety-issues/top-pregnancy-fears/)
I'm struggling to figure out why/how this is true. Wouldn't the odds be roughly 1 in 4 every single time you get pregnant? Why would having one miscarriage make you less likely to have another?
Re: Statistical chance of having a second miscarriage
BFP #2 12/22/15, EDD 9/1/16
Me: 38 DH: 42.
Married: 9/2008.
10/2014 BFP
5/2015 BFP
8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks
11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
DOR
Hypothyroidism
MTHFR
DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
AMH .65
8/2016 FET #1 BFN
9/2016 IVF-ER #2 1 normal embryo.
11/2016 IVF-ER #3 0 Embryos
2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
5/2017 BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!
January 1, 2016 - CP. Heartbroken and feeling helpless.
July 2017 - Finally!! FINALLY!! Our GORGEOUS baby girl was born on 7-15-17. Miracles do happen!!
Me: 38 DH: 42.
Married: 9/2008.
10/2014 BFP
5/2015 BFP
8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks
11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
DOR
Hypothyroidism
MTHFR
DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
AMH .65
8/2016 FET #1 BFN
9/2016 IVF-ER #2 1 normal embryo.
11/2016 IVF-ER #3 0 Embryos
2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
5/2017 BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!
There are tests that can be run on the fetal tissue after miscarriage to identify chromosomal problems, but they are generally not offered for first or second losses unless requested and are probably not covered by insurance (at least in the US).
My biggest advice if you have experienced a loss or are scared and want well-researched information is to read this book: https://www.amazon.com/Coming-Term-Uncovering-Truth-Miscarriage/dp/0813540534 It helped me cope with my missed miscarriage and while it doesn't make the loss go away, it made me more confident and knowledgeable to speak up at the doctor's office and know what to discuss and what to ask for.