So. I'm in the Army. Pregnant, obviously, or I wouldn't be here. I'm in my window to re enlist. I go to my retention NCO today and he tells me I can't re enlist because I'm pregnant, which is a lie. But whatever! I will fix that next week when I go back to work. I've been tempted to get out. I'm 24 and I want to live a life with my family without the added stress. My fear is that I won't be able to support my family. Obviously they are on my health care, the rent comes out of my check and so does my car payment. I'm very torn. I just want some opinions. I guess I've never lived outside of the military and I'm scared I won't be able to support them, even though I know I have my husband. Sorry for the blab fest. Just some opinions..please
Re: Army Life
As far as getting out, my husband is also in the service and we were seriously considering getting out to be a little more stationary and be able to live near our families but financially it's a tough decision. As long as he stays in, I can be a stay at home mom which is what I've always wanted, and it really is terrifying to get out and leave that stable source of income/house. You really need to talk to your husband about your options as far as working if you get out and how it will affect your long term goals financially and for your family.
For us, we decided for him to stay in because we got married young and moved too much for me to get a degree and we would have a hard time supporting our family. It's really a personal decision for everybody. I hope things work out well for you
DD 12/20/99, DS 12/14/12, M/C 9/2014, M/C 1/2015
Yes, moving and living half a world away from extended family is tough. But that made my immediate family that much closer and I am actually closer to my extended family that a lot of my civilian friends have ever been. From my experience, military kids are generally well adjusted and have been raised to really appreciate family and country. Plus, in a military school you're usually only the new kid for a short period of time until the next family arrives. You learn to make friends easier and I have friends all around the world.
I don't know what my life would be like now if my Dad hadn't been a career Marine but I wouldn't change anything. There are so many benefits to raising kids in the military that I could go on forever. I realize it isn't for everyone. I wish you the best in whatever decision you and your husband make for your family!