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How do you know when you're ready?

shalyncrossshalyncross member
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How do you know when you're ready to start trying for another baby after a loss? I'm scared of feeling like I'm trying to replace what I lost. Is this a normal fear or am I just still not ready?
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Re: How do you know when you're ready?

  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    I've been 100% ready ever since it happened. I'm not 100% confidant anymore, but that's to be expected after a miscarriage.

    You could try NTNP like PP said, and see how you feel.  You said you were scared you'd feel a certain way.  If you start actually feeling that way, you can prevent for a while until you feel ready.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
    BFP 2/16/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks      •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
    BFP 9/24/18  •      CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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