Hi All,
This is a little early but I have been thinking about it so I figured I would ask. Is anyone getting the big brothers/sisters a gift for when the new baby is born.
I have always thought it was weird when people bring gifts for the children who are not having the birthday party. I figure they need to learn to celebrate whoever is having the birthday and not think they should always get something. Is this the same thing?
Yes/no? If yes, what are you thinking? Thanks!
Re: STM- Big sister/brother gift
Just my opinion, but I don't want her to think that she shouldn't be curious about the new baby, or want to touch it, or help with some of the things - handing baby a toy, covering with a blanket or helping with diaper change etc; which is what I have seen a particular friend do with their older child, to detrimental results. I'm going to be paying a lot of attention to the new baby so she will too, and I don't expect a special toy would be more interesting for very long. We'll just have to see how it goes.
Make a pregnancy ticker
I am getting them big brother and big sister gifts though because this is a major moment where our family's will have something so big to share. It's a part of their dad and it's a part of me. My step kids will be almost 14 and 11 when LO is born so their gifts will just be something like new earbuds, some candy, maybe a movie, or movie tickets, etc. (open to ideas!! : ) ) Just some fun stuff to show them that they have a new role, but still get to be themselves and kids too.
Before baby comes I'm planning a special "mommy and Ella" day when we will go out for lunch, and get her ears pierced and maybe go shopping or to a movie.
DD born 1/24/16
TTC #2 - Jun 2017
BFP on 8/24/17