So I'm due the end of January. My sisters what to do my shower in early November before it gets crazy with holidays. Mention this to my in laws, who proceed to spend 1/2 hr telling me to move the shower to first week of January so as to accommodate their 6 week trip to Florida. I'm tiny (5' tall, 100 lbs pre-pregnancy). The baby is already measuring big (my husbands a big guy). It'll be a miracle if I make it to 40 weeks. Never mind who wants to have a shower when they're 37 weeks, huge, and miserable? All to accommodate a trip to FL? I was pissed. Now I feel better that it's off my chest. Anyone else have stupid in laws? When are you planning your showers??
Re: Stupid in laws. Baby showers
I would say that any scheduling conflicts are entirely the responsibility of those who are hosting the shower for you.
Don't know how to approach that with then besides saying that this is when works for most people and sorry. But I don't know your relationship with them and whatnot.
DD born 1/24/16
TTC #2 - Jun 2017
BFP on 8/24/17
Mine is a bit earlier than most, late October, since we anticipate delivery 28-33weeks. (Of course I hope it's longer!) I just made sure the shower falls AFTER viability. But- there is no way you want a shower during the holiday hustle!
Two years, two losses and three IUIs...
We are having TRIPLETS!
EDD 1/26/16
GGB born November 2015!
There's just too much going on with holidays and birthdays.
DH's birthday is four days after my due date. Mines 13 days after.
So we'll do it after babies here.
My brother did and it turned out pretty well.
DD 12/20/99, DS 12/14/12, M/C 9/2014, M/C 1/2015
BFP #2: 7/23/14 - MC: 8/28/14
BFP #3: 2/22/15 - MC: 3/3/15
BFP #4: 5/20/15 - Stick baby stick!!!
I'm not into second showers, but husbands family will party for ANY reason! My MIL has insisted on doing a shower for DD2 and actually asked me what day (I work every other weekend so there is that) if the place she picked was okay, and which theme I preferred. I told her from the get go that this was in her hands, but if she needed any help with anything just to get in touch. So, I'm due 1/6/16 and the shower, which is fall themed, Will be on October 24th. I'm still not big on the entire thing, but hubby said I wasn't being nice telling someone they couldn't do something for me that they really wanted to do. They were just being nice and I should too.