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Girl, did you love tit the NHIE used a vibrator? If not, get yourself a vibe and have some solo time.
I did (if the website wasn't freaking out then), and I do have one. It just doesn't happen.
-------------quote box fail------------- I swear I'm not trying to be some creepy perv, but this is making me sad. Also I'm totally not trying to single you out. Think of this as my public service announcement to the orgasm-less. Maybe try a different toy? Some lube? Wine?
I went a loooong time without orgasms because of 1) being unfamiliar with my body and what works for me, and 2) some mental hang ups from previous experiences. It's for sure worth exploring both avenues.
TTC #1 --- BFP #1 5/15, loss at 5 weeks --- BFP #2 12/15, loss at 4+3 --- RE testing 3/16 normal, still trying for our rainbow
Girl, did you love tit the NHIE used a vibrator? If not, get yourself a vibe and have some solo time.
I did (if the website wasn't freaking out then), and I do have one. It just doesn't happen.
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I swear I'm not trying to be some creepy perv, but this is making me sad. Also I'm totally not trying to single you out. Think of this as my public service announcement to the orgasm-less. Maybe try a different toy? Some lube? Wine?
I went a loooong time without orgasms because of 1) being unfamiliar with my body and what works for me, and 2) some mental hang ups from previous experiences. It's for sure worth exploring both avenues.
letyourheartbeyourguide I don't think you're a perv. It makes me sad too! I'm not the first and I won't be the last. I'm not giving up. I still have a lot to learn about myself as I wasn't able to have sex until recently (birth anomaly). I will definitely consider your suggestions!
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NHIE tried to massage the prostate to give DH one of those supposed "mind blowing" orgasms... Have you ladies heard of/tried this and have it work? I've always been intrigued lol
I'm open to it, it just hasn't happened. I particularly think Usher would be a wonderful partner.
This rubs me the wrong way. I know you said you're not against it, but it just does. Like dancing or "dancing" with someone from another race is some unique or scandalous experience.
I'm open to it, it just hasn't happened. I particularly think Usher would be a wonderful partner.
This rubs me the wrong way. I know you said you're not against it, but it just does. Like dancing or "dancing" with someone from another race is some unique or scandalous experience.
Well if we were to go with "dance" meaning sex... Then yes it is still seen as scandalous to many (not me mind you). I got a lot of side eye with my first boyfriend and that was only 9 years ago. I think it's best to recognize that there is an issue and embrace the fact it's not an issue to you personally, like the PP mentioned, than to bury our head in the sand and pretend stupid crap doesn't exist. If it doesn't exist then there is no reason to fight it. And fight it we must. (I hope that post made sense... It did in my head)
I'm open to it, it just hasn't happened. I particularly think Usher would be a wonderful partner.
This rubs me the wrong way. I know you said you're not against it, but it just does. Like dancing or "dancing" with someone from another race is some unique or scandalous experience.
Well if we were to go with "dance" meaning sex... Then yes it is still seen as scandalous to many (not me mind you). I got a lot of side eye with my first boyfriend and that was only 9 years ago. I think it's best to recognize that there is an issue and embrace the fact it's not an issue to you personally, like the PP mentioned, than to bury our head in the sand and pretend stupid crap doesn't exist. If it doesn't exist then there is no reason to fight it. And fight it we must. (I hope that post made sense... It did in my head)
Of course it is seen as scandalous to many, and that is a problem. I was suggesting the OP thought that it was, and that offended me. I disliked the sleepover, "innocent", "I wonder what it would be like to sleep with a *insert race* guy" vibe to the post.
There are many NHIE's that are not scandalous and the OP never stated it was scandalous. She just has never "danced" with anyone outside of her race. Not sure in what context she is using danced but either way, it seems like you are finding offense to something that wasn't intended.
There are many NHIE's about sleeping/kissing women. Do you think a lesbian couple should be offended because it's "scandalous"? No, it's simply a NHIE...
Now what's scandalous is pegging YH.
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@crzyforbabies
There are many NHIE's that are not scandalous and the OP never stated it was scandalous. She just has never "danced" with anyone outside of her race. Not sure in what context she is using danced but either way, it seems like you are finding offense to something that wasn't intended.
There are many NHIE's about sleeping/kissing women. Do you think a lesbian couple should be offended because it's "scandalous"? No, it's simply a NHIE...
Now what's scandalous is pegging YH.
I was stating how the post made me feel. I am not going to defend my negative knee-jerk reaction. I was pointing out the unintentional effect that post had on me. We're all coming from different vantage points here, and are going to take certain things differently sometimes.
There are many NHIE's that are not scandalous and the OP never stated it was scandalous. She just has never "danced" with anyone outside of her race. Not sure in what context she is using danced but either way, it seems like you are finding offense to something that wasn't intended.
There are many NHIE's about sleeping/kissing women. Do you think a lesbian couple should be offended because it's "scandalous"? No, it's simply a NHIE...
Now what's scandalous is pegging YH.
I was stating how the post made me feel. I am not going to defend my negative knee-jerk reaction. I was pointing out the unintentional effect that post had on me. We're all coming from different vantage points here, and are going to take certain things differently sometimes.
---- And I was stating an alternative opinion on the matter
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Re: GTKY:Never have I...
NHIE had sex in a theater.
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TTC Dec '13
BFP 10/8/2014 MMC 11/20/2014 D&C 11/26/14
BFP 9/20/2015 MMC 10/7/2015 D&C 10/15/15
@benicode you are seriously cracking me up today!
Can't believe I'm asking this.
X_X
(There might have been some handy work on DH'S part. MIGHT. )
Not everyone can breastfeed - Mammary Hypoplasia/Insufficient Glandular Tissue Awareness
I do believe if you search fisting.., you'll find a treasure
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DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
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3/2015: Start TTC
8/2015: PCOS Dx
4/2016: BFP, Loss (4+5)
2/2017: BFP
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NHIE had sex while on my period, but DH woke me
3/2015: Start TTC
8/2015: PCOS Dx
4/2016: BFP, Loss (4+5)
2/2017: BFP
Honorable mentions: Biggest IF support sister, sweetest bumpie, most genuine, LFAFer you'd most like to visit, great things come in small packages, pocket sized babe
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I am in shock that I'm the only one that's ever used a sex swing......
#meangirls #dfdubclub
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I swear I'm not trying to be some creepy perv, but this is making me sad. Also I'm totally not trying to single you out. Think of this as my public service announcement to the orgasm-less. Maybe try a different toy? Some lube? Wine?
I went a loooong time without orgasms because of 1) being unfamiliar with my body and what works for me, and 2) some mental hang ups from previous experiences. It's for sure worth exploring both avenues.
NHIE watched porn with my partner.
letyourheartbeyourguide I don't think you're a perv. It makes me sad too! I'm not the first and I won't be the last. I'm not giving up. I still have a lot to learn about myself as I wasn't able to have sex until recently (birth anomaly). I will definitely consider your suggestions!
3/2015: Start TTC
8/2015: PCOS Dx
4/2016: BFP, Loss (4+5)
2/2017: BFP
Honorable mentions: Biggest IF support sister, sweetest bumpie, most genuine, LFAFer you'd most like to visit, great things come in small packages, pocket sized babe
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
Me: Well what else was I going to do with it!?
Not everyone can breastfeed - Mammary Hypoplasia/Insufficient Glandular Tissue Awareness
This rubs me the wrong way. I know you said you're not against it, but it just does. Like dancing or "dancing" with someone from another race is some unique or scandalous experience.
Well if we were to go with "dance" meaning sex... Then yes it is still seen as scandalous to many (not me mind you). I got a lot of side eye with my first boyfriend and that was only 9 years ago. I think it's best to recognize that there is an issue and embrace the fact it's not an issue to you personally, like the PP mentioned, than to bury our head in the sand and pretend stupid crap doesn't exist. If it doesn't exist then there is no reason to fight it. And fight it we must. (I hope that post made sense... It did in my head)
There are many NHIE's that are not scandalous and the OP never stated it was scandalous. She just has never "danced" with anyone outside of her race. Not sure in what context she is using danced but either way, it seems like you are finding offense to something that wasn't intended.
There are many NHIE's about sleeping/kissing women. Do you think a lesbian couple should be offended because it's "scandalous"? No, it's simply a NHIE...
Now what's scandalous is pegging YH.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
I was stating how the post made me feel. I am not going to defend my negative knee-jerk reaction. I was pointing out the unintentional effect that post had on me. We're all coming from different vantage points here, and are going to take certain things differently sometimes.
I was stating how the post made me feel. I am not going to defend my negative knee-jerk reaction. I was pointing out the unintentional effect that post had on me. We're all coming from different vantage points here, and are going to take certain things differently sometimes.
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And I was stating an alternative opinion on the matter
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
#meangirls #dfdubclub
Me: Well what else was I going to do with it!?
This is exactly my philosophy! When you spit you have to taste it twice. Why would you NOT swallow?
Plus it's cleaner that way.
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Plus it's cleaner that way.
LFAF February Siggy Challenge - "Favorite TV/Movie Couple"
DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04