It's been a while!!
So we are doing donor egg after a history much like any of you would imagine. I'm structurally sound down there and all and just missed my window of using my own eggs after several MCs.
Apparently it's "up to me" of whether or not to put in two embryos (according to doc). They have the same 60% pregnancy rate with 1 or 2, but with 2 a 30-50% chance of twins. We aren't there yet (mid-Sept) but I have really mixed feelings about putting two in...the idea of twins (if they both make it) is cute and all but there are so many not very good realities. The only positive thing I can think of is that I would just be done with babies after this--no trying to do FET at age 42 or something for baby #2. The rest is just anxiety about the health of the babies, my health, and then the normal twin worries. I see many people on here who have had twins. How did you decide? How did you do?
My anxiety is so high about all of this at this point. I've had too much time stewing (almost 3 years), have heard too many awful stories, read too much, etc. (had to get away from these forums even!)
*****Losses Mentioned*****BFP MENTIONED*****ALL WELCOME******ALL ABOARD!!
Me: 42, DH: 46, Married: 11/12
Losses: MMC#1 11/12 BO, MC#2 11/13 at 8w BO?, MMC#3 8/14 chromo healthy M @12
weeks, stopped growing at 10.
Negligible AMH, FSH finally went high. Pursued DE.
DD born at 38w2d on 5-27-16. Finally!!
Pregnant again with OE. EDD 11/9/17 Girl!