resistant father to be

JessaRex

The father of my baby, whom i live with, knows that stuff needs to be done but is extremely resistant. We have 3 months and 2 weeks to go, but i do not want to be rushing around last minute doing stuff. Id like to actually sit and do nothing for the last 2 weeks, not to memtion if baby is early... my sister was 4 months early, dad to be was a month early, i was a minth early. It happens often... nothing at all has been done. Not the painting. He refuses to think baby names. He is still on the idea that there is a 1% chance that it could be a boy when it is very much a girl. The baby room is still stuffed with things im not aloud to lift. And way more... i dont know what to do...

polooo27

Not sure what your financial situation is like, but when my wife starts threatening to pay someone else to do stuff I start moving a little faster. This will only work if he cares about the finances and/or his pride. Obviously, don't do this if he doesn't care and it will make you go broke.

As for the baby names I was terrible about it too. My wife would ask me if I liked a name and I would say yes or no. I didn't bring many names to the table so being able to say yes or no worked for us.

JessaRex

Lol that would most likely work very well lol at least in the financial talk. Hes more frugal than i am, which is saying something lol thanks for the tip. I wouldnt have thought of that. As for the names, im slowly getting used to it. We have 4 that he is ok with that i thought up, so its good enough

Ratpasta

JessaRex said:

The father of my baby, whom i live with, knows that stuff needs to be done but is extremely resistant. We have 3 months and 2 weeks to go, but i do not want to be rushing around last minute doing stuff. Id like to actually sit and do nothing for the last 2 weeks, not to memtion if baby is early... my sister was 4 months early, dad to be was a month early, i was a minth early. It happens often... nothing at all has been done. Not the painting. He refuses to think baby names. He is still on the idea that there is a 1% chance that it could be a boy when it is very much a girl. The baby room is still stuffed with things im not aloud to lift. And way more... i dont know what to do...

remember that he is also struggling with giving up his life to a child - which is really hard.  It took me months after having a son to even start coming around.

Not having a baby is easy and fun - you get to do whatever the hell you want with your spare time.  Once you have a kid - you HAVE no spare time.

that manifested itself as rage with me and it took some time for me to get over it but now my 4 year old son and I are best friends.

Its going to take him some time.  Feed him love and support and everything will be good