DS is almost 1 and I love being his mom but I am having a hard time being a mom and a wife. Does that make sense? I give and give to DS and I feel like I have nothing left for DH. It doesn't help that DH doesn't seem to understand my struggles and isn't very supportive. He seldom asks if I need help and whines if I ask for help. I am becoming resentful of him. And I am starting to question whether we can parent together, and that's an awful feeling. DS had to stay home from daycare today because of a fever. I am almost of out vacation days at work. DH says he can't stay home, he has to save his vacation days for a hunting trip. So my MIL took DS. What a bunch of bull! Oh and DH says I have a bad attitude. He hasn't had to change his way of life nearly as much as I have and we are having a hard time adjusting to the "new us". Anyone else struggling with this? Maybe this is just how it is and I do need a new attitude. There are so many nights when I say under my breath, you are such an a**!!!!! And this can't be good for DS. I often think to myself that I don't like my husband anymore. Can you still love someone but not like them, or who they are? It takes me being a push over of a wife for everything to go smoothly - on the surface. The be seen not heard mentality. As long as I just go with what DH wants, all the time, everything is fine. Don't complain about a darn thing, don't expect a darn thing from him, don't put in your two cents or have your own opinion. I do not know what happened to us but what we had isn't there anymore. bah!