I'm assuming you're going for the VIV-ian pronunciation, with the emphasis on Viv (Not the Vivienne way, vivi-ENNE) so I picked Vivian. Keep it simple.
Vivian was on our short list because I think it's feminine without over doing it. Vivienne seems over the top for me even though I know it's a perfectly acceptable spelling. Vivien is just wrong.
Re: Which spelling?
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