FFC: I made the dumb judgement call of telling a friend who I used to be close to that we are ttc. She just got married as well and just got pregnant so in my head we were going to bond and I would learn some things. Turns out she wasn't even 100% sure she wanted to get pregnant yet and was making her H pull out half the time. Now she's 4+ months pregnant. I told her I am temping and charting and she said "haha WOW. You really are trying!" I could hear the condescension in her voice. I judge her for being in such a rush. They're under 35 and they met in mid- 2013 now she's married and pregnant? My H is 44 and yes, we actually have a reason to rush. Why do I have a frenemy and why did I tell her anything? Probably because I'm the type of person who judges her friends.
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