Ok, so I'm a lesbian and been with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We did artificial insemination at home. I'm now 5 wks and 2 days pregnant and feeling VERY sensitive and hormonal, and I'm fully aware of that. However, I've always had some jealousy and insecurity issues when it comes to my gf. She has a very low sex drive and has a hard time showing affection. This gets to me sometimes and hurts my feelings and makes me wonder if she's even attracted to me. She's says its her and not me. But its hard. She met a new friend at work at her new job, who is also a female. This friend is married and has a baby.. But it seems sometimes like they're just too close for comfort. Her friend leaves messages on her wall on Facebook, they text, etc. I understand that yes, us lesbians can have female friends.. But I feel at times like saying .."back off, this is MY woman.." And like her friend is just a little too important and too close and I don't like it one bit. It just makes me uncomfortable, especially since this friend is definitely her "type" and if my gf was single and her friend was into women, they'd probably date. Am I being unreasonable, needy and insecure? Or can anyone else in the lesbian community relate with me? Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks!
Re: Help! Jealousy and hormones
I mentioned that someone who works in the grocery store is cute and it upset her. I was like, she works in the grocery store. I don't know her name. Being on the other side of the issue I feel frustrated by my wife's jealousy.
Since your sex life and drive issues are a problem, you haven't been together too long and are expecting a baby I would maybe find a counselor. Having a baby will change your sex life a lot and if you already have issues with that it's probably something you should address.
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!
fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP!
Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)