16 weeks found out 2 days after he left

Sbchels5

For 16 week's  I've been texting   emailing we lived together 3 years and he has not talk to me once I found out early and told him he called a friend and said he would pay and take me......never would answer I told him in no way could I do that without his support   and begged I told him because  he knew me so well he knew I would have the baby I called text tried everything  but he never got in contact with me or anyone know I think I look crazy texting him about the baby every doc appt. But  we where together so long and went through hell together. I can't understand   how he can act like I don't exist  please any advise  

20thirteen

I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles.  I know you don't really want to hear this but you might want to stop reaching out into the void.  My best advise is to cry it out, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and focus on the baby.  I know it hurts, and it will for a while.  It's hard to imagine someone you thought you knew just up and leave, and then treat you as if you don't exist.  Especially when there is a pregnancy.  Find your support, do you have family/friends nearby?  If not, is there any possibility of moving closer to them?  When you find a good strong support system, you'll be amazed at just how far that can take you.  I'm pretty sure that without my support system, I would be in shambles still.  My ex left us when I was 2.5mo pregnant, we dated for 3.5/4 years.  He contacted us and saw my DD 3 times before he disappeared, all before her first birthday. She turned 2 last month and, let me tell you, things get easier.  Hugs, mama.  Sending love your way.

mommie81

I absolutely agree with 20thirteen.
Move forward worry for your baby! Things will get better. when I found out I was pregnant I thought my husband was going to be so upset that I was so terrified to tell him but I told him and surprisingly he was so excited I could not believe how happy he was I worried so much she was going to be so upset I cried and cried and he thought that I was crying because I didn't want the baby and now we are expecting a baby in two weeks. you'll be fine!