TTC after 35

Intro post (loss and kiddos mentioned)

Hello!

We've been TTC #3 for 6 months now (just started cycle #7). We have two boys, 6 and 3 and we had a mc between the boys.

All three of those pregnancies/conceptions were "easy". I knew I was lucky to not have had to worry about it, but to now have been trying for this long feels so strange. I have always had compassion for women struggling to get pregnant. I have walked the infertility road next to close friends. But somehow I never expected to be having a hard time.

Since I'm over 35 I called the doctor when I started this cycle and have an appointment in 2 weeks. Anyone care to share their experience if you've had "that" kind of an appointment?

Looking forward to getting to know you ladies and supporting each other on this journey!

Anne

Re: Intro post (loss and kiddos mentioned)

  • Welcome Anne,
    I too have children and have had luck getting pg in the past, however in the past year I've had 2 mc's and it seems like now it's harder to get pg.

    I haven't seen a fertility dr yet, however I did have some blood work done to rule out medical issues (thyroid, blood clotting disorders, preliminary genetic testing.)
    Everything came out "normal"...so I'm just charting, taking prenatals, and eating clean.

    Hope you get some answers, and better yet a bfp asap!
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • This appt is with an OB, so I assume that's what they'll do for me too. I don't have any interest in doing anything more invasive quite yet anyway.

    So sorry about your losses! Hope it's soon for you too!
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  • Welcome to the board! Good-luck with the appt. Good to be proactive. 
    Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
    TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
    Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
    Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN 
    IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
    Result; 1 frozen blast (inconclusive PGS results)
    IVF #2; ER: 6/22 16 retrieved, 6/25: 5 transferred (CP), 2 frozen
    FET 9/17: BFN
    Current FET -- Transferred 2 day-3 embryos - BFN

  • When I was TTC#1, at the six month mark, I went to the OB.  I had labs done, got an order for a HSG test and a semen analysis for my hubby, a prescription for Clomid, and a referral to a RE.  This seems pretty standard with OBs.  You can do as much or as little of that as you want.  Good luck!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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