So, things have gotten a lot better in the last few months, but early in this (unplanned) pregnancy, he was drinking and driving, and drinking to excess. He wouldn't admit that a six pack was too much to drink before getting behind the wheel, and was threatening to leave me, because I was "trying to change him". It was a really hard time, especially since I had morning sickness, and didn't want to see his beer vomit. Now he is only drinking one at a time if he is driving, then waiting a long time to go home, or two if he isn't driving. He hasn't thrown up from drinking in a long time.
I still wonder if he is going to lose control again, especially after the stress of this new second baby sets in. I don't ever want him out on the road drunk again, potentially hurting himself and other people. So, does this sound like alcoholism, if now he has it under control?
Re: How do I know if my husband is a alcoholic?
I think pp probably hit the nail on the head. If you're questioning it, there's probably a problem. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Personally, I have a very low tolerance for bullshit especially drinking so I would not handle that well. I wouldn't put up with alcohol related puking at all! I would lose my cool over that.