ok so the warning in the subject line gave it away, but i got a positive beta today!!!!
My number is 132. That is 2 weeks after my day three transfer or 17 days after retrieval. I am new to betas so don't have a strong sense on the number. My RE said it was a good strong number. If it was closer to 0 she would be concerned that one had implanted but didn't make it and we were just detecting remaining hcg. That all said, i of course googled it when i got home. Sounds like there is a huge range. I think my number is less than average but not at the low end by any means? I of course i would feel better if it were above average, but from everything i read its hard to read into the first beta too much (not that it is stopping me!!). Sounds like it is the relative change between readings that is important. If anyone has any more experience/insight i would most appreciate it.
In the meantime we are super excited to get the positive and will just take it one day at a time. I go back for another beta on saturday and then again on monday.
I hope its ok if i hang around here until we have some more certainty. I am very aware how early it is and that we have a ways to go.
Thanks everyone for sending your positive thoughts my way -- it worked!!!!!
Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN
IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
YES!!!! I've been waiting for this moment all day!! I'm so very happy for you and am already praying for amazing betas. It's true that there is a big range and it's more important that it rises and doubles. Can't wait for the updates!! So exciting!!!!
ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14) 11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!! Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805 12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)! 1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm) EDD: 8/10/16 8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches 5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo) Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
Congrats!!! I was sooo hoping for this post! YEA!!!!!!!!! I am so happy for you. Here is to a H&H 9 months and for you to be done with beta hell quickly!
YAY!!! I'm SO HAPPY for you @dolphin012!! As others have said, it's totally about doubling time. That is an AWESOME first beta. I'm trying to remember, but I know that my first beta with my daughter was in the 90s at about 15-16 dpo, so I think you're doing great so far!! Keep us updated. We need some happy BFPs around here.
ETA: spelling is hard when you're excited!!
*** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl!
Woohoo!!!!!!!! We've been needing some good news around here! I'm so happy for you. I hope everything goes great. =D>
TTC#1 since Jan 2015 BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36) BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
BFP 11/18/15 • DD born at 41 weeks (age 37/38)
TTC#2 since May 2017 BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39) BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40) 9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied) RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy. BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
BFP 5/11/19 • Fraternal twins • MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w) • Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)
Me- 39 (turning 40 in April), TTC for the first time ever (since Jan 2015), low ovarian reserve
Married 3/14/14 to my wonderful wife, but her sperm count is rather low
TTC with frozen donor sperm and science
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs. 2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs. Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire. Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus! fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP! Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)
I got the results for my second beta today (blood draw was yesterday morning) and they are not looking as promising. My beta dropped from 132 to 66. Since it was the weekend i only talked with the nurse. She was surprisingly still a little optimistic. I had it done at a different lab since it was saturday. She thought the difference between labs and how the equipment was calibrated could also explain the drop/difference and that i shouldn't read too much into it. I certainly appreciate variability between labs and methods, however that is a pretty big difference, given it should have doubled. So i can't say i am optimistic. But i am to continue with meds and with my scheduled third beta tomorrow morning. So we will wait and see what we get tomorrow.
It is certainly a disappointing result, but I didn't have my long-term expectations up yet. Although i will say the drop did catch me a little by surprise. I thought we had at least made this next hurdle, b/c yesterday morning it sure seemed like my nausea had doubled! To the point where i was really not looking forward to the windy mountain drive down to town! I guess there was a lag with the symptoms.
will keep you posted.
Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN
IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
@dolphin012 - I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you that it starts doubling with the next draw. I've read on here and heard that it can decrease slightly if perhaps you have multiple embryos implant and one of more were lost. I'm not sure if that could be accounting for the drop? GOOD LUCK!
*** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl!
Waiting is so hard. I really hope you get good news.
TTC#1 since Jan 2015 BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36) BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
BFP 11/18/15 • DD born at 41 weeks (age 37/38)
TTC#2 since May 2017 BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39) BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39) BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40) 9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied) RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy. BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
BFP 5/11/19 • Fraternal twins • MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w) • Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)
This sort of limbo has got to be so rough! Just keep breathing, and see what the day has for you.
Me- 39 (turning 40 in April), TTC for the first time ever (since Jan 2015), low ovarian reserve
Married 3/14/14 to my wonderful wife, but her sperm count is rather low
TTC with frozen donor sperm and science
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs. 2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs. Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire. Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus! fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP! Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)
Thanks for all the thoughts everyone. I had my third beta yesterday and got the results back today. It dropped to 56 so confirming that the little guy didn't stick . I actually was prepared for it -- my body could tell by sunday evening. It was kind of crazy how quickly everything went back to 'normal'.
Although i felt like i did a good job of keeping my expectations in check knowing it was still very early, i am still finding it to be a tough loss. That said I am glad we got the positive despite it being harder in the end. Silver lining i guess is that this was our first transfer and we got further than we ever have on our own. I also got the ok to run again so that will help with the mental healing.
They will continue to monitor my betas until i get down to <5 and wait for AF to show up. I have an appt next week w/ my RE to debrief and discuss our FETs.
thanks everyone for sharing the ups and downs with me
Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN
IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
Ahhhh @dolphin012 I'm so sorry. I know there are truly no words that help. I do believe it's a great sign that you got this far for the first time though. Take time to grieve because a loss is a loss regardless of how far along you were. I'm sending hugs and prayers for you and your partner.
Oh, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Losses are hard no matter how far along, not to mention all the time and financial investment that goes with IVF. I'm glad you still have the strength to see the positive but don't feel bad for allowing some time for grieving. We are here for you. Hugs!!!!
ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14) 11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!! Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805 12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)! 1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm) EDD: 8/10/16 8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches 5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo) Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
Re: Beta results - drumroll..... (bfp warning)
NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
EDD: 8/10/16
8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
And yes, hang around, maybe your good fortune will rub off on some of the rest of us.
YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is all about the double.
Wishing you well on Saturday
BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
TTC#2 since May 2017
BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
(de-lurking...) Congratulations! That's a really good first beta. :-)
Married for 7 years, TTC for 4 years
dx: Diminished Ovarian Reserve
2 Clomid IUI's + 4 injectable IUI's= 5 BFNs and 1 mc
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!
fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP!
Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)
YAY YAY YAY YAY!!!!!! So happy to see this! I will be sending lots of sticky vibes your way, congratulations!!
Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid DH(43)Low T/ED
MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012 TTC #2 since 04/2014
BFP 8/26/2016
NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
EDD: 8/10/16
8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
BFP 2/19/15 • MMC found at 9 wks • D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
BFP 8/29/15 • CP (age 37)
TTC#2 since May 2017
BFP 10/18/17 • MMC found at 8 wks • Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
BFP 2/16/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 4/13/18 • CP (age 39)
BFP 5/07/18 • MMC found at 10.5 wks • D&E at 11.5 wks • Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
BFP 9/24/18 • CP (age 40)
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!
fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP!
Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)
NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
EDD: 8/10/16
8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1