Crap, think I'm pregnant

tiff16

We have 2 kids and I was starting to wonder about a 3rd. We discussed this and said maybe next year. However while we on vacation earlier this month I was careless with taking the pill. I'm having horrible cramps and no period yet. I took a test but I think it's still a couple days early. I feel like crap. I'm so stressed. I can't sleep. Please give me the courage to talk to my husband. Please tell me everything will be ok.

Snoflakes4eva

tiff16 said:

We have 2 kids and I was starting to wonder about a 3rd. We discussed this and said maybe next year. However while we on vacation earlier this month I was careless with taking the pill. I'm having horrible cramps and no period yet. I took a test but I think it's still a couple days early. I feel like crap. I'm so stressed. I can't sleep. Please give me the courage to talk to my husband. Please tell me everything will be ok.

Why do you need courage to talk to your husband?

tiff16

He really wanted to wait until next year.

Snoflakes4eva

tiff16 said:

He really wanted to wait until next year.

So just be honest with him. Does he know you weren't taking your BC consistently?

tiff16

No

Xstatic3333

You've just got to tell him. It shouldn't require courage. If you are pregnant, he helped. That said, it's also possible that missing some pills just made your cycle a bit wonky this month.

Snoflakes4eva

Do you not feel safe telling him?

Xstatic3333

Snoflakes4eva said:

Do you not feel safe telling him?

On second thought-this.

tiff16

I talked to him and he was great about it. I'm just full of emotions right now. If I'm not pregnant I'm setting a timer to take my pill. I've never had a "scare." It's always taken months of trying!

HookEmNelson

Glad it went well @tiff16 ! I'm sure you're somewhat relieved and it sounds like you're in a great and understanding relationship with your husband! Keep us updated!