I can't stand the way people seem to be so resentful about buying others gifts!! Honestly buying things for others is fun, and doesn't have to be expensive if you put a little thought in! It seems so selfish to me.
If you want to circumscize your child then it is your decision but you shouldn't be upset with someone for telling you the truth...Sometimes ignorance is bliss but knowledge is power you just have to choose which direction you prefer.
UO: Posts about ''OMG, I'm so fat now. I miss my size -2 body!'', ''OMG, I can't go out drinking with my friends any more and I'm depressed!'', etc are making my eyes roll out of my head.
Amazingly, they have these little pills and devices on the market that can help you continue to party on in skinny jeans. I know there are oops babies, but please!
Also the word panties. Probably the grossest word ever. It's banned in my house.
Panties is the absolute worst! It is infantalizing and sexualizing all at once. All I can think of when I hear that word is sexual predators. Am I alone in that?
Also the word panties. Probably the grossest word ever. It's banned in my house.
Panties is the absolute worst! It is infantalizing and sexualizing all at once. All I can think of when I hear that word is sexual predators. Am I alone in that?
Yes! Completely agree. Panties is a horrible word. *Shudder* It absolutely makes me think pedophile. They are underwear, theee end.
UO: Posts about ''OMG, I'm so fat now. I miss my size -2 body!'', ''OMG, I can't go out drinking with my friends any more and I'm depressed!'', etc are making my eyes roll out of my head.
Amazingly, they have these little pills and devices on the market that can help you continue to party on in skinny jeans. I know there are oops babies, but please!
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Ok, rant over
It won't end. These posts will pop up through the entire pregnancy
Also the word panties. Probably the grossest word ever. It's banned in my house.
Panties is the absolute worst! It is infantalizing and sexualizing all at once. All I can think of when I hear that word is sexual predators. Am I alone in that?
Yes! Completely agree. Panties is a horrible word. *Shudder* It absolutely makes me think pedophile. They are underwear, theee end.
I refer to my own underwear as underwear but consistently refer to my husband's boxer briefs as panties just to mess with him/the world. I agree with everyone that it's a gross word - but sometimes being aggressively gross to my partner is my kinda fun, I guess!
I can't stand the way people seem to be so resentful about buying others gifts!! Honestly buying things for others is fun, and doesn't have to be expensive if you put a little thought in! It seems so selfish to me.
Worked in retail during the holiday season - OMG if you're miserable buying a person you love a gift then GIVE THEM NOTHING. You sucky human.
P.S. I don't think I've ever said the word panties out loud because that's how uncomfortable it makes me. haaaa
UO: Posts about ''OMG, I'm so fat now. I miss my size -2 body!'', ''OMG, I can't go out drinking with my friends any more and I'm depressed!'', etc are making my eyes roll out of my head.
Amazingly, they have these little pills and devices on the market that can help you continue to party on in skinny jeans. I know there are oops babies, but please!
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Ok, rant over
It won't end. These posts will pop up through the entire pregnancy
I'm sorry but to me, this is just wrong on so many accounts. Whether your baby is an "oops baby" or a planned one, not everyone is necessarily ready for the emotional and physical changes that come along with pregnancy even if they are in fact ready to have a baby. I think your rant is insensitive and ignorant to the changes a woman goes through while pregnant. They don't bother you? Great for you! But that doesn't mean they aren't real issues a soon-to-be mother faces.
I know I'm going to be flamed for this, but.... I can't stand people who don't get the NT scan done with the reason of, "I'll love my baby no matter what", but then still find out the gender. Why does it matter if you'll "love your baby no matter what". Many people test for chromosomal abnormalities so they can prepare before birth. The same reason many find out the gender early.
I just want to emphasize, that I don't think everyone needs an NT scan, and I get that people get it for different reasons, but that is NOT what I'm talking about as my unpopular opinion.
UO: Posts about ''OMG, I'm so fat now. I miss my size -2 body!'', ''OMG, I can't go out drinking with my friends any more and I'm depressed!'', etc are making my eyes roll out of my head.
Amazingly, they have these little pills and devices on the market that can help you continue to party on in skinny jeans. I know there are oops babies, but please!
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Ok, rant over
It won't end. These posts will pop up through the entire pregnancy
I'm sorry but to me, this is just wrong on so many accounts. Whether your baby is an "oops baby" or a planned one, not everyone is necessarily ready for the emotional and physical changes that come along with pregnancy even if they are in fact ready to have a baby. I think your rant is insensitive and ignorant to the changes a woman goes through while pregnant. They don't bother you? Great for you! But that doesn't mean they aren't real issues a soon-to-be mother faces.
I know women that "planned" to have children and still feel like pregnancy is TOUGH. It's tough work. Before you get pregnant you really have NO idea how much your body is really NOT YOURS anymore. It's an alien feeling. It's scary even if you're doing it a second time! Everybody projects their fears in different ways. Maybe, you choose to project your fears by judging every pregnant lady who isn't shooting unicorn kittens out of their A$$ because in reality you know you can't work yourself up to shooting them out either. Thanks @chipmonster I wasn't going to say anything but I think you hit the nail on the head.
UO: Posts about ''OMG, I'm so fat now. I miss my size -2 body!'', ''OMG, I can't go out drinking with my friends any more and I'm depressed!'', etc are making my eyes roll out of my head.
Amazingly, they have these little pills and devices on the market that can help you continue to party on in skinny jeans. I know there are oops babies, but please!
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Ok, rant over
What about women who have issues with food and eating disorders? They aren't allowed to have kids because they might have a hard time with weight gain/body changes? This rubs me the wrong way and you sound really judgemental. It's not all about the size 2 for everyone who talks negatively about how they feel.
I'm going to quote myself here, because I didn't fully read her whole post before I responded. My initial response was referring to the first part about the "I'm so fat posts." I definitely don't feel that your second part of your post is acceptable, whether it was an oops baby or not.
ETA originally quoting momona1. Don't know why my quote box messed up
Re: UO Thursday
BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13
BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15
BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d
Just keep swimming.
BFP #2 - EDD 1/25/16
P.S. I don't think I've ever said the word panties out loud because that's how uncomfortable it makes me. haaaa
I'm sorry but to me, this is just wrong on so many accounts. Whether your baby is an "oops baby" or a planned one, not everyone is necessarily ready for the emotional and physical changes that come along with pregnancy even if they are in fact ready to have a baby. I think your rant is insensitive and ignorant to the changes a woman goes through while pregnant. They don't bother you? Great for you! But that doesn't mean they aren't real issues a soon-to-be mother faces.
I just want to emphasize, that I don't think everyone needs an NT scan, and I get that people get it for different reasons, but that is NOT what I'm talking about as my unpopular opinion.