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Confession Time!!!

jfritschie87jfritschie87 member
in January 2016 Moms
I thought this might be fun :) So here's mine for the day: I made a pan of rice crispy treats and ate about 6 of them throughout the day, i slept in until 1pm, left dirty dishes in the sink all day (and they're still not done) then in the afternoon.. I ate a dove chocolate ice cream bar and enjoyed every last fatty sugary delicious bite! Normally i eat super healthy and wake up early but today i just gave in to my desires lol. On the positive, i took my dog for an hour long walk. Gotta give myself credit somewhere :p

What's the most recent thing you you've done you want to confess?
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  • babybluubabybluu member
    edited June 2015
    I wanna quit my job so bad, but I won't tell dh that. I hate that I work around food. I hate that I have to walk and stand for 8 hours When I just wanna lay on the couch naked. I hate that I hate my job now. I use to LOVE my job and love picking up extra shifts and working as much as I can, but I just had 3 days off and was considering giving some more of my shifts up to another coworker but I need to keep working to save up some money. That and I don't want to be lazy and sit on the couch all day like I do when I don't work. I just want to love my job again instead of always wanting to put in my two weeks.
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  • BlueyedskyBlueyedsky member
    Lol :) I have been one day late on homework assignments every single day this week. Oops.
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  • emzy86emzy86 member
    I just finished the dishes from last night because I was too nauseous to do them then, I've done barely any work on my post grad course because frankly I can't be bothered! I'm currently sitting on the couch eating chocolate. Oh and I have run out of elevit (tonight will be the first night I miss it) because I live in a small town & don't want to buy it here, and my friend sent it in the mail but it never arrived. Feeling bad about that one!
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  • neonpotatoesneonpotatoes member
    I decided to lounge in bed and play hayday instead of working for 4 hours today!!!
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  • ChipMonsterChipMonster member
    @teachmegs817 that's what post-report card time was made for ;)
    Happy last day! You made it!
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  • gcolon7988gcolon7988 member
    It's our anniversary weekend and DH wants to go out and celebrate. I secretly dread the thought of having to dress up and put makeup on. The thought of it is exhausting. I told him I don't feel very well and I would have to think about it. I just want to sit on the couch in my PJs!
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  • Love4littlethings24Love4littlethings24 member
    After being off work for 4 weeks for being high risk and my doctor wanting to be on the safe side until I was out of first tri- I went back this week and have only done the things I needed to do. No one answered me or my clients phone calls when I was gone so I'm giving up answering the work phone. They can go eff " team work". I'm also not feeling bad only taking my clients and not pushing myself. I'm usually a people pleaser, but lately I've wanted to tell a lot of people to eff off lol
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  • mrussellomrussello member
    My sister in law makes me want to punch her. I love my family and I love her but holy hell. She didn't know ANYTHING about babies when she was pregnant the first time. My daughter was 1 and my other nephew was already 3 so we had a lot of family advice and help and never left her feeling alone and over her head. She never learned anything. Then she got pregnant AGAIN!!! Still asking the same questions and didn't know what to do with my niece and having a boy on the way. Still not learning ANYTHING!!! Nothing. I know it's a boy and different than a girl, but the fundamentals are the same. My brother can't even get her to understand.

    Now I'm pregnant with my second and this one is a boy too. Our kids will be one year apart exactly and all she wants to do is give me advice and talk baby. My pregnancy is making me irrational and I'm trying not to yell at her. Really?! You, the lady who knows nothing about babies, is giving me advice about babies?! I can't even deal with it. I wake up in the morning to random texts, hear from her throughout the day and every single time we get together, we have these conversations. I change the subject, focus on my daughter or pretend something else caught my attention.

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  • fragglemomfragglemom member
    @Paige6410 Yes! This is my first, but there has been a girl drought on both sides of my family for 24 years. As soon as we broke our news they were all saying that it must be a girl and they want a girl so bad. So what if it's a boy?! So my baby boy won't be special?!
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  • BabyRut2015BabyRut2015 member
    We just got back from vacation and I stuck all the laundry in & am laying in bed....and I didn't even drive home I slept in the car.
    And my house is a wreck and I said I'd clean it. AND we aren't picking my 6 mth old lab puppy up early just because we got home early, we are still picking him up tomorrow because he's so much to handle....
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  • gdazegdaze member
    Paige6410 said:

    I'm starting to not enjoy talking about baby related anything to people. I have 2 boys and all anyone wants to talk about is, "You hope it's a girl right?" or "Oh, I hope you get a girl." or "It's definitely a girl this time!" "Girl! Girl! Girl!"

    All I can think of are the looks of disappointment that I'm going to get if this baby is a boy. It makes me sad and pisses me off.

    I have 4 boys so I definitely feel ya there. I don't even want to tell anyone at all
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  • khf221979khf221979 member
    I ate a drumstick ice cream cone for breakfast and again after I had lunch today. I also left work early just bc I didn't want to deal with it. My house is also a wreck and I just can't find the energy to clean it. I've also realized I'm gonna be a horrible mom bc I can't even tell my dogs no and I spoil them rotten so my child will probably be spoiled and will never learn the word no. Well from me anyways my DH will have to tell them no.
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  • TinyDancer51510TinyDancer51510 member
    I've had a bit more energy this week but have I used it to clean the house? No. I did do some laundry. And finally had sex. But my bathrooms and kitchen are still embarrassing and I'm caring less and less. :-P
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  • MyelhsaMyelhsa member
    khf221979 said:

    I've also realized I'm gonna be a horrible mom bc I can't even tell my dogs no and I spoil them rotten so my child will probably be spoiled and will never learn the word no. Well from me anyways my DH will have to tell them no.

    I having the opposite problem, I have 3 dogs who have all undergone extensive training with me so I assume that my house is run similar to how a drill Sargent would run his squad.

    Every day I just pray that I don't talk to my children the way I talk to my dogs because that's a sure-fired way to make sure they hate me.



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  • bkc92bkc92 member
    I'm supposed to be getting laundry done and start packing/cleaning before me and DS leave for a long trip to visit family Across the country. What am I doing instead? Lounging on the couch, watching HIMYM re-runs, and sipping on a Pepsi. Yup.
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  • nickicb7nickicb7 member
    BabyRut2015 said:
    We just got back from vacation and I stuck all the laundry in & am laying in bed....and I didn't even drive home I slept in the car. And my house is a wreck and I said I'd clean it. AND we aren't picking my 6 mth old lab puppy up early just because we got home early, we are still picking him up tomorrow because he's so much to handle....
    You have a 6 month old lab pup? I have a 4 month old lab. I feel like a terrible mom, because Im struggling to be patient with him, but I feel like he is crated more then he should be when Im alone with him. He is biting a lot, i think because of teething, and i find it really frustrating. Ive had a lab puppy before and he never was like that. I feel like I am not doing a good job, and that he is going to turn out a disaster and we will have to get rd of him because he won't be safe around the baby. Im really hoping its a phase and now that Im off work for the summer my attention will help him, but even just today i was trying to play with him and give him love and he goes from chewing his toy to biting me, then when I try to deter him, he goes nuts and orbits and tries to bite. his tail is wagging so i know he thinks he is playing, but i just can't deal with it. Im a bad mom!
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  • babybluubabybluu member
    emililyha said:

    You guys. I just washed my hands with toothpaste.


    ...is this real life?

    One time before I was pregnant I was extremely close to removing my eye makeup with nail polish remover. I feel you.

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  • Sahara26Sahara26 member
    nickicb7 said:


    BabyRut2015 said:

    We just got back from vacation and I stuck all the laundry in & am laying in bed....and I didn't even drive home I slept in the car.
    And my house is a wreck and I said I'd clean it. AND we aren't picking my 6 mth old lab puppy up early just because we got home early, we are still picking him up tomorrow because he's so much to handle....

    You have a 6 month old lab pup? I have a 4 month old lab. I feel like a terrible mom, because Im struggling to be patient with him, but I feel like he is crated more then he should be when Im alone with him. He is biting a lot, i think because of teething, and i find it really frustrating. Ive had a lab puppy before and he never was like that. I feel like I am not doing a good job, and that he is going to turn out a disaster and we will have to get rd of him because he won't be safe around the baby. Im really hoping its a phase and now that Im off work for the summer my attention will help him, but even just today i was trying to play with him and give him love and he goes from chewing his toy to biting me, then when I try to deter him, he goes nuts and orbits and tries to bite. his tail is wagging so i know he thinks he is playing, but i just can't deal with it. Im a bad mom!


    My lab is 2 years old now. He was a bad biter when he was young. Our hands and arms were always ripped open and he would do the same things that you were describing. He would go from a toy to your arm with no warning. Sometimes even just petting him, he would bite your arm or ankle. I took him to a puppy class and she suggested putting him in time out when he bites. Definitely not in his crate, since that should be his safe place. We used the laundry room. If he bit me, I wouldn't react at all. I would just pick him up, put him in the laundry room and close the door and leave him for 1-2 minutes. Every time he bit me or DH, we did this and he stopped biting in about a week. Part of that may have been coincidental timing with him growing out of the phase, but I do think it helped. Our trainer used positive reinforcement instead of smacking, or using a spray of water and she said anytime there was a behavior we didn't want we needed to remove attention. I know it's kinda off topic for this thread, but I remember how frustrating it was when our puppy would bite us and I too worried about his behavior when he would grow up. Hope it helps!
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  • star7827star7827 member

    I am so glad you confessed this.  I am normally a peace loving person... But not lately.  I think everyone is an idiot lately.  Especially at work.  I can hardly bring myself to smile at them, much less talk with these idiots.  This is NOT me.  I am a people pleaser and I love everyone. 

    But... right now I just want to slap them with an open stapler.  Come on second trimester!  I need you so I don't end up in jail!

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  • ChipMonsterChipMonster member
    star7827 said:

    I am so glad you confessed this.  I am normally a peace loving person... But not lately.  I think everyone is an idiot lately.  Especially at work.  I can hardly bring myself to smile at them, much less talk with these idiots.  This is NOT me.  I am a people pleaser and I love everyone. 

    But... right now I just want to slap them with an open stapler.  Come on second trimester!  I need you so I don't end up in jail!

    Hahaha this is how I felt throughout my entire pregnancy with DS! I was angry and hated everyone except DH and my close friends & family. I would joke that the baby was stealing all my happiness and kindness. Turns out that I was probably right because he is one of the happiest and most social babies! Good luck!
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  • mcrane8mcrane8 member
    My husband had a work function at 9 AM last Friday (who does that?) and I was scheduled to have my first day off in 2 months.  I scheduled 3 phone meetings for that morning, outside of working hours, just so I didn't have to go the function, which would have required leaving the house. 

    I ended up getting a terrible headache which had me throwing up in between calls.  Karma for not being a supportive wife?
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