Changing when I tell my parents?

raychelmarie33

My husband and I have planned for weeks now to tell my parents about the pregnancy this Saturday. I'll be about 9.5 weeks at this point and have even figured out a fun/creative way to do it. We are going to be together Saturday for my fathers birthday and Father's Day.

Today is my fathers actual birthday and his father, my grandpa, passed away. It wasn't unexpected, but of course still sad.

I'm unsure now if we should still announce this to my parents? Idk of its inappropriate now for at least another week or two? Maybe I'm over thinking it, just wanted some opinions!

peppercorn16

Sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa! If it were me, I would still tell them. The only way I feel this would be inappropriate or in bad taste is if it were literally at the funeral or if there was a lot of family gathered at the house for the funeral or making arrangements, etc. If you're still getting together and able to celebrate your dad's birthday and father's day then add one more celebration-- I think they'll be glad for some good news!

l4rk

I would feel out the mood on Father's Day and go ahead if people seem to be in good spirits or even moderately good spirits. This is good news! I went to a funeral a year or two ago and my entire extended family was just so excited to be together that everyone was laughing and had fun... It was unexpected. But if everyone is sad and mopey, put a pin in your announcement for another day.

JandJ62914

I'm so sorry about your grandpa. I agree with @l4rk. See how the mood is on Father's Day and go from there. This could help the grieving process and maybe lift your family's spirits during a sad time.  Actually, shortly after my grandfather passed away my sister announced that she was pregnant. It was very comforting because we realized that while our family had lost our grandpa, we were now gaining a baby. We knew it wouldn't fill the void, but it did help.

I hope this helps! Again, so sorry your family is going through this.

Meg0810

I am so sorry for your loss. We had a death in my family this week. I had the same concerns as you, but we decided we would share our news. Everyone has been very happy and it seems to have brought some comfort. I would encourage you to share your news, I am sure it will bring them great joy.

raychelmarie33

Thank you all! I feel more at ease, and will see how the next two days go and decide!

KerryS1009

So sorry for your loss. I would still plan on telling them. I think your Dad will need a little cheering up and hearing about a grandchild will be a great way to do that.